Tuesday, 1 March 2005

Diary March 2005

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2005/03/01. Tuesday. Rain.

A pinch and a stoat on the first of the goat and no returns...

E to M'a; D sch. I *have* remembered his stuff, and the chopping boards, for fruit salad day.

Work: submit ULS again :-). Reboot minifer. Etc. GM's Georgina turns up: another from Oxford! Wiki: 172 being bad and re-protected. Sigh. Not that I do wiki at work...

Home 2. Rain, lightly. Decide to try out new saw. And its better. But its a lot of work (blackthorn branches entwined and won't fall when even 99% cut through and then snags) and I end up with tired arms. Oil saws and leave in shed. Tea and bread and read LotR III. Exciting! Even though I know what will happen. How odd.

3:30: sch for DE. End up via some tortuous negociation with Oliver too. Somehow all 3 entertain themselves (chiefly pooter) and I have peace to do the washing up and a bit of other tidying.

M back about 5, but swiftly collapses: her late night catching up on her.

Oliver collected 5:30: I "cook" for DE: cheese toasties and mozarella. Hmm. M and I finish off mushroom mix from Sat.

Do some math with D: n times table; squares; small cubes; differences of squares. OK.

Print out emails for this evenings meeting; M beds E.

8:30: to JM for salaries ctte; nice and quick with only us two and in agreement.

Home; wiki still too slow to use/down. M to bed well before 10, last night hits her. I will follow soon. Do minutes of meeting and phone Trisha. Play with blogger styling.

2005/03/02. Wednesday. Rain.

Rather a pleasant and peaceful day. E to M'a (payment for monday), D sch. Work till 2 (take up the great task of the sea ice paper again) then head home. Stop at the pub for a coffee and the sudoku, which on wednesday is Difficult but in fact not too hard and I do it just after 3, when they shut...

Home: M is back with E; they have been shopping. I get D; he is last out of class (no surprise; but he *has* been very good about getting ready for school on time since half term) and appears to be in a good mood (later at home he says it was a bad day and refuses to say why, but you wouldn't guess that from his mood). Home.

Misc quiet afternoon. Wikipeace and the witch is dead (172 says so; and by bizarre coincidence SN too, though quietly), though Ed seems to have gone off the rails but since he is a good ol' boy he can get away with it (though in fact what he did was very noisy but easily reversible so, once the shock wore off, not too bad). DE playing happily. Help D on beltz.

Stoat: strat cooling.

Bedtime for D: finish the Hobbit: oh dear what next?

Soir: quiet. Upload WWB pic for wiki. About 10 M starts playing and I think I should be going to bed nice and early but now its 11...

2003/03/03. Thursday.

W / Y (Janet tired). Thence... well, to town, since its sunny.

Ben W: chap looks at my rear wheel and says time for a new one; but workshop can't fit me in; so get some spokes instead. To Heffers, and their nice little cafe Nero, for coffee and ciabata and a bit more of the JS biog.

5:45: pick up D then E. Confirm J with M'a. M back 6:30 (making me a bit nervous) and we tidy somewhat.

7: Jodie turns up - a bit swollen-mouthed with her teeth but can speak and DE look like they will behave. Out to Eliza Carthy/Spiers+Boden. M couldn't really find out when it started - "doors open 7" it said - so we opted to leave here 7. Park in multi-story - its very tight, M has trouble on the ramps - and get in. Its a rather concrete-blocky dreary place, at least the bar area. Looks like minimal-maintenance and clear-for-fights not welcoming. Hey ho. Get a drink and read for a bit; then pick a spot by the stage. M guesses about 200 audience; room for more. We are slightly confused by the running order: its EC+SB, *then* Sharon Shannon, who M heard at the folk fest but I didn't. So is SS the famous one, on the grounds that later means more famous? But the write-up gave far more space to EC. We shall see.

So: the music: OK; perhaps even good; on a few somgs even excellent; but (on reflection) probably didn't do justice to anyone; less that the sum of the parts (nothing up to Jackie Tar on EC's part, or Rambling Sailor on S/B). Partly this is my disappointment at not getting more S+B by themselves; partly that the sound from the 5-piece (another violin/guitar; and a tuba; sorry I don't know who) was just a trifle muddy and less focussed than S+B were at the folk club. M says she thought J-fiddle was poss better than EC (though both v good she thought). I would rather they had played as S/B then EC plus her too, I think.

After an interval SS comes on and I think it becomes clear that she is support: nice enough I guess but a bit on the tweedly-deedly side for my tastes. We have to be home by 11 so slope off jnust before 10:30. I walk J home: frost. Cold.

2003/03/04. Friday. Snow! Melts.

Wake to snow outside and still falling heavily. Stops as we leave, about 1+ inch, nice and thick and fluffy and feels cold - all promising. D has been out playing (see him while still in bed, with 2 hats on for warmth). Take camera with me for there may be things worth pics. And indeed E is.

Sch, kinds ecstatic in the playground; building big snowmen, rolling huge balls around. But, somewhat late, shepherd him in. E p/sch, after another little play in snow. Then work. But even as I get there the weather is shifting, to rain... heavier... oh dear D will be sad. And by the time I leave at 1:30 all the lovely snow is gone. But I did get some nice pics on the footpath, even if the new fence doesn't help.

Stop off at pub - hoping for sudoku but no - and get sandwich, which they expedite for me kindly. Also a half of Broadside. Then arrive on time for D's "choosing time", ie 2:15-2:45 when they get to pick what they want to play with, before the afternoon break. But before that D finishes his "fruit salad" work with me - to write about its taste, and what he would do different. At work, JT is the bollockmeister but for kids stuff like this its easy, though poor D is sorely puzzled by what to say. Then we play: first with the electric stuff and I show him (and the others too, all interested) that you can couple two electric motors together so the second one *generates* electricity, and we just about light up a bulb (it works better with four batteries powering the first motor; it also turns out that Mrs S didn't know that running a motor produces elec). Thence onto the blocks, which they like, to make parks and things. And lastly lego - they have a small tech set, but more important is a set of cards with simple ideas for interesting machines. I borrow these at plays end. D wants me to stay but leave him. See M'a outside and say hello E (who is off to P's) and get her bag.

Home. M is there, has been all day, but says she has been good and worked.

Kirsty phones: Jodie is not at all well (teeth still) and can't really do tomorrow: so I say OK. Phone up Clare, who can, though inconvenient: thanks to her.

6+: drive to get DE. N is somewaht annoyed with them I think, and they are loud, and D was *v* slow at getting ready from school - this is his habit, but N takes me aside to say it, and maybe this is a good time to lean on him about it. But she is full of praise for E/P. Andy arrives to collect B just as I've offered to take him back. Home.

A bit more beltz with D, though we still can't get past ?B7? is it. About the second suction one. Its a good game though - but needs a "slow" option.

Meanwhile M has phoned balloons and tomorrow is off - something of a relief as it turns out cos using C/A would have been a bit favour. But we can reschedule a bit later. A asks if DE want to come over 1:30 ish so I say yes but this turns out to annoy D who wants Sam over... argh.

Soir: finish LotR III. M plays. Early bed.

2005/05/05. Saturday.

MDE off to w/rose while I'm in bed, then a pebble on the window: M has forgotten her keys. Should I go to town? Well maybe not, no need. Wiki.

11: Penny brings Sam over, which makes D happy as he hasn't had the chance to play with S for ages. S has matured a bit: still a bit naughty perhaps but mildly so (on the evidence of today). Still an edge to his character. But he can concentrate when he wants to: I go down to chop some more tree and DS follow; S sticks doggedly to sawing through a thickish branch till he has finished when the more mercurial D has drifted away.

After, they go over the stream and I lose them a bit. Good to have the two of them wandering off together to explore. Later: call them back for lunch: they have found a "punt" - an old bit of landing stage I think, but whose. After lunch: M needs to go to practise on a grand in a bit. I drink coffee then follow DS out, they have a "picnic" of some sort with them, and want to float the "punt". I go out to find them... where are they? GO nearly to the W end, calling: no reply. Head back. Calls behind: Sam: D is stuck on some barbed wire. Oops. Free him (would he have thought to wriggle out of his jumper like Peter rabbit?). D has also lost one red glove, somewhere. Anyway, now time and a bit to go back, and as we wriggle over the tree that is our bridge we find Jeff and katie wondering where we are. Chat. Should have invited K too?

2:30: take kids to A+C for invited play. Rain :-(. Kids playing f'ball on BW: I consider telling them to stop: but: who else is going to use it in the cold rain? Drop kids; DB wants to chat about kids. Possibly ironically, by the time we're fin the rain has inc and kids have stopped. My POV: we're not going to stop them till there is somewhere better. And my unspoked view: if thats the level of problem we are worrying about, we should be glad.

M is back from her playing. It was worth it she says: the volume is more and the bass relatively louder.

Peace.

Andy doesn't bring DE back till late: 6ish: they went via orchard and pub. Dinner: pizza. I get to take E to bed tonight, with her gracious permission, and we read Meg and Mog (she first "reads" it to little horse, then I read it to her).

Soir: misc, though (sigh) mostly in front of the r100. Is this the future? Is it good or bad?

2005/03/06. Sunday. Bonfire.

Not up till 9+. With DE's help, mostly D, get M breakfast in bed, for tis mothers day. Also give her the cards DE did at (pre)school. Sun.

http://www.thegoonshow.co.uk/mp3/what_time_is_it_eccles.mp3.

After lunch leap up and cut down the nearest Leylandii. Well its been asking for it. Cutting it down to 1 min. Getting the roots out took another 1/2 h or more. M goes off at 2 to sign cheques with Sarah or something.

Take DE to the Orchard, for tea, and because D wants to buy a CD he saw there yesterday, Lego Island 2, with his own money. Also get some seeds and seed potatoes because E is keen.

4 ish: start up the bonfire of the May, thinking (correctly) that it will take a while to get going and so I should start early. Also alows me to do tidying elsewhere (under the big apple) and throw it on. Good. After a while DE come out and help.

Bath after to remove smoke. Read Peter Duck.

2005/03/07. Monday.

Work: mostly sonde/msu stuff: interesting. Brian G asks me about Cafe S: OK.

Home just before 7, all is well. I get to bed E cos M wants to work on p/s stuff. Long discussions with Sally on the phone about vouchers. Look at Rainbow which Tom sent! The nearly-unbelievable: http://rainbow.arch.scriptmania.com/rainbow_tv_episode.html - can it really be true? Wiki is down for writes :-( Make my first post to the en: newsgroup.

Now its 11:30 and M is playing and my fingers ache.

2005/03/08. Tuesday.

E up several times in the night... "there was a moving shadow...", "...there was a noise in my ears..." and stuff. Grrr. I guess she must be a bit sick. M does the getting-up-and-soothing her.

Work till past 3 (well I did stop for lunch) to finsih up the MSU stuff.

Pick up DE.

Home: bonfire. D gets Jesse and Ezra. Treehouse. Burnt bread. E inside.

Cook for D (toasty) and E (pasta). M back 6:20.

Soir: 7-10: PC. Argh.

Back: wiki quiet.

2005/03/09. Wednesday. Cold. Grey.

M needs to go to p/s so will take D: E and I get the bonus of not having to go to school and back. I'm not hungry to sit with oj and the paper while E flumps around. E turns out to be in a cantankerous mood today, and collapses into stubborness and/or tears whenever "crossed", ie asked or told to do anything she doesn't want to, such as wearing matching shoes, or her coat. Because of this we miss smoko, which neither of us wanted to do, but after a timeout on the stairs fails she goes upstairs to play and, of course, being 3.3 she doesn't understand that some things happen now or not at all.

Leave house about 11:30 and go to Germ, which is OK. E's "scarf" isn't there. Once again she has a chevre sandwich and eats some of the chevre but not much and insists (bad behaviour again) that I remove all the "yucky" bits, ie olvies and tomatoes. Hmm. Thence to library, and return some rather old books. Thence w/s for a second coffee (me) and apple juice (E). Then she insists on me buying crisps, and then refuses to eat any. I am not impressed. Kids books section for a bit, then time to go home (via breadshop).

Meet MD outside sch; hand E over; talk to IMcG (quote is coming over the fax as we speak, except its run out of paper...).

Home: wiki and GP stuff. D is off chez Oliver; E is half-invited over too at 5 ish but really she is in no state to play with anyone today (she has wet herself again, too... :-(). M goes to collect.

7:25: off to Haslingfield, SE, for GP meeting: candidates. Lasts till 9.

2005/03/10. Thursday. Later, Sun.

E in something of a mood in the morning again: has to be forced into her coat and her boots.

Work / Y / Mike Meredith talk on ACC var. Quite interesting... So I'm fin past 3, well 3:30 when all is done.

To allot, after some musing, and dig for about 1h, I've done rather little this past month. At the back: slowly expanding the habitable area. Slowly. DB is there too digging over his bit. By now its sunny and pleasant.

Home, intending to read my finance emails. But! Aha! I have forgotten the shutdown of BAS kit today. So I can't. Hey ho. Read the paper instead, not much. Tidy somewhat.

M'a phones at 5, annoyed: E has wet herself for the 3rd time and M'a is out of any kind of spare clothes for her. Oops. Pick up E 5:45: she is smiley, but in a guilty way. Odd thing is that M'a says that apart from the wee all was fine. Pick up D; home. M is back.

7: DE to bath. 7:30: off to gov finance. All the real decisions have already been taken...

Home. Quiet soir. Check over some photos.

2005/03/11. Friday.

D is ready very early... M sends him out to run round the garden. He got up early to play Beltz and sat there in his coat with his backpack on!

It turns out to be red nose day: we meet Dakota with his face red (we could have done D: he and E were doing painting this morning since they were up early, but we all forget or never knew). At school, Charlie has 1/2 a mini-edam on as a red nose and he offers D the other half: good! While outside with E (I often am, between 9 and 9:05, when pre-school opens; its better to wait in the corridor with E and read a book than go up to the p/s mobile and get crushed in the crowd. E is very fond of "deserts" at the moment) I hear Mrs S talking about RN day and pointing out the giving, and those-less-fortunate bits.

Work (do sudoku from wed while waiting for machines to come back), misc (also - argh - need to restart acluster and jobs cos Tom turned it off cos BL asked him too for what a ppear to be totally spurious reasons), JT discusses "management issues" briefly. Urgh. Somehow I don't end up finishing till 3 - well partly cos I had lunch. So get brief time at home. Pick E up from sch - naughty her, needed a change again, M'a unimpressed. Get P; off we go home. M tests my nerves by coming back at 4:05, so I rush off (stopping only to pick up clean clothes for D) and collect DNB to take to O's party in Grantchester. Frantic changing in the car and let them out one by one, oddly enough N first then B then D. Then home.

EP seem happy enough, largely playing "Orly". M cooks dinner: sphag. N brings D back, happy enough. What was it like? "Oh it was like O's parties always are: Mr Marvel, Disco, Food". But he seems to like it. Only N came too early...

E to bed early (7) for being naughty and tired. D in theory to bed a bit early but not much.

Soir: M tinkles. I vid her (or rather the tripod does) and she says she is getting better, which is right.

Fin: 11:10.

2005/03/12. Saturday.

Up 9:30. Sun sun sun how lovely but as so often happens it fades later. Get up earlier is the answer! But then I couldn't laze in it in bed.

Wiki: SEPP and IPCC rumble on but elsewhere there is peace so I should count my blessings really.

Head off to allot to tidy and dig. Take loppers because the various blackthorn that have sprung up really need to !die! before they get any bigger. Of course had I cut them years ago they would have been easier; and had I cut them 3 months ago they would now be dry enough to burn. But anyway! Chop the biggest mostly, and the others entirely, and start a bonfire of the bits on junk that have dried under the "roof" and it burns merrily.

Then some digging - at the front. Its time to start tidying up there. In fact I brought some onions to plant but not time. Need to do some earth moving viz the leftover lump of junkheap at the front - bring spade sometime. Still unsure if I'll need a stoatavator. Jim Lewis is out with his. David B has jury rigged some bizarre construction to catch water, which will blow away with the first breeze. Carry armloads of dried stalks to the bonfire.

Fin 12:30. Home. Surprise: MED still out shopping. Sun. So: take coffee and toast to sit outside. But: soon chills off and after the toast I take the coffee back inside. Peaceful reading of Peter Duck. MED back 1 ish.

1:40: take DE off to H+I pool for a swim, hurrah. Meet Billy, Clare and Stanley there, with Paul and AO later. And a good time is had by all. DBA(O) splash, swim and float well together. E sits by the edge (as ever) but rather happily and agrees to sit on a float occaisionally. We have brought several bottles and bowls she wanted to play with, and she does. Its quite noisy in the pool - hard to hear her. Stanley floats in his rubber ring with a big smile on his face. Stay in till 3:30. C leaves with S and I get B (well I offer). We go off to the pub with PAO. The kids hide under the arch where the fire was, and watch the pool table; Paul and I talk a bit; I sudoku (don't finish a diff) while he reads the times... and he bought the drinks. E insisted on having a bag of crisps, and that it must be red. The pool players are bikers but very friendly to the kids, they don't mind them getting in the way, and even let DB try on their helmets!

After: home: bonfire. Clear out more of the deadwood, and cut down more of the blackthorn, till its really quite open, but more to do. Must plant a hazel in the space. Meanwhile DB have their own little fire (E stays inside) which they use to toast hot X buns, when it doesn't go out.

Dinner: pizza, which is easy. B hungry, D only a bit, E eats little. She has her trousers off again :-(. B off home; E to bed; I to bath 7:30-8:30, nearly finish PD. Come down exhausted. House is a mess: tidy later. PD till 9; wiki; pine; news; PF; st: on feb. M is playing, I'm off to bed: 11.

2005/03/13. Sunday.

E drags me up about 9... its a fair call, she has done a poo in her nappy. So we tidy her up and have breakfast again (I got up at 7:30 to get her first). Call D off his pooter to join us.

D constructed a marble run down the stairs using the skyrail kitD goes quiet for a while and then I discover he has been constructing a marble run down the stairs using his "skyrail" kit he got last c'mas, but sadly our house is too small to allow him to get it out much. J phones (re M's concert next week) so let D talk to her while I photo him... E joins in the fun, and I create a loop-the-loop, and all this is jolly.

Sit around drinking coffee in the sunshine (its warm out, but not warm enough to sit out, sadly). Wiki somewhat. M wonders if she can afford to get up and try to play... I warn her this is asking for trouble... and sure enough before she has even started E comes to her. E is happy at the moment, but fragile: if crossed, if tired. Maybe a bit ill, maybe in a bad development phase, who knows.

Lunch. Then out to dig: I have conceived the desire for a tidy garden, though the execution may fall short, but start by digging over the bed just beyond the arch, with help from D and E, so M gets to piano a bit. Replant the few we found that seem to deserve replanting: I don't know their names so I can't tell you them: possibly "grannies bonnets". Just as its time to go off to the Orchard (I want to buy a compost bin for the allotment) Dak arrives, so we take him too, and indeed Cory who turns up just as we're driving off. All a bit weird but never mind. Start off with a light snack and hot choc and apple juice all round (not mixed!), then the infants run out to play hide and seek and I trust their sanity and hope they behave. E sort-of stays with me: we buy some daffodils (small ones, sprouting from bulbs: they can be planted in the newly dug bed) and some garishly coloured primrose type objects that catch E's eye and - who knows - may look nice. Also get the said comp bin. Then its time to round up DCDk, which is tricky as they are playing hide and seek (their favourite game here, and its a good place to play it) and we can't find D. Get him eventually, off we go. Intend only to drop off stuff at allot but they are keen to come so off we go, D carrying the base, E the door, D the lid, and Dak wearing the bin itself :-). Decide to put it where the fire has just been, hoping it will be a bit sterile (possibly hopeless, as the soil beneath seems quite moist, when I dig it flat and remove the vast ?burdock? that was there.

Home. E goes inside; the rest come with me for a bonfire at the back. I start up mine then they get enthused cutting wood for theirs with a variety of implausible saws. All well. Send back C/Dak at 5:30 (as ever) and then D and I plant the new plants: good.

Inside: I have a quick bath before dinner. E's sanity is fading and her behaviour worstens, sadly, but we just about survive dinner. Then she goes for a bath, and D.

Soir: write up what I decide is vn0.8 of my talk for wednesday and mail a few people with it. Otherwise, fairly quiet.

2005/03/14. Monday.

PSA brings in his electric chainsaw. Yea! Watch out trees, here I come.

M finished the Phoenix and the Carpet at D's bedtime (slightly extending it to get the last 10 pages done).

10:30: to Cambourn to get electoral GP stuff.

fin well past midnight: GP stuff.

2005/03/15. Tuesday. Sun. Mild.

E M'a; D sch. Work: fluxes: are they a good idea? CG paper, and anyway ERA40 overestimates trends.

Fin work 2: to pub for lunch and a coffee and (having intended to read CG's fluxes paper) end up taking rather a long time over a Mild sudoku. Thence to allot to dig for 1/2 hour because its convenient to go straight on to school to pick up DE. E is there with M'a; cuddle; she runs off to play; sit in sun to await D. Then sit watching them run and play: DN are digging at the base of a tree doing something. E wants me to watch her walk along a wall. Pond has been drained by the commercial landscapers... hmm... well I suppose they know what they are up to. Talk to Nikola re M's piano. Finally about 4 N must be off to take Nelson to his violin lesson, so I offer to take NP since N and D are v keen for her to come. They play a bit more (P can only just get onto his bike with assistance but then cycles round the playground quite steadily though N'a is nervous) then N is bored with that so home! ND zoom off ahead, we don't see them, so I take EP home, P dragging (or shuffling) his feet somewhat. Once inside, EP settle down to bananas in pygamas (once I wipe E's snot etc off it) and ND are nowhere to be seen. N comes in a bit later saying they have been picking chives (D is fond of doing this but does rather over estimate how much we need) but were also doing hide-and-seek and expecting us to seek them. Oops.

Later: J and Ez turn up and disappear down to the stream with ND and some food I give them. After a while I check up what they are up to: the stream is quite low and they are playing by the "pontoon" bit. Inside.

6: cook: by E's req (and cos its late) Snood Explorer sphagetti: this goes down well with all. N'a comes at 6:30 to get her two, just preceeded by somewhat late M at :25. I go for a rest in the l'room.

Soir: wiki. GP electoral: less hassled that the night before, do the 5 remaining I need to get out, leaving 2 for me. M does some pre-school stuff.

2005/03/16. Wednesday.

Talk time: get there in good time, 7:45, and chaos and set up is in progress, which I suppose is what to expect. Chat to the folks there and all seems well. Meet PC, and then Howard Griffiths. A+S arrive quite early too so I sit with them while we're waiting. They went to the london book fair: interesting enough, and it doesn't occur to me to wonder why. Until later, when A points out the connection to S's proofreading. I hadn't realised, but its obvious. And analogous to the then wedding/tin stuff.

Anyway, we get going at 8:10, and I get about 15/20 mins, which is just as well cos I just about manage to get through in that time. And its a good talk I think and reasonably well pitched. Then PC; then HG. There stuff is rather more detailed, and to some extent proves some of my points about impacts: so earlier butterflies and tree leaves testify to warming, but are they supposes to be a bad thing?

After, to pub: Mitre is being redecorated so BoB is full (and tacky) so to Castle which is good. 3 pints of Oyster Stout. Excellent.

2005/03/17. Thursday. Warm and sunny.

Oh my head. Work, but not very much: I think I'd better write it down as a day off.

Yoga. Talk with ASR re talking, all very amicable if slightly odd.

Thence to town. It is warm! It is sunny! It is spring... so I bury myself in a bookshop (Heffers) with JS and the Clash and a coffee for an hour. Then back, and celebrate with some digging on the allot, its a good day for it and the soil is good. Progress at the front, but slow. It'll be planting soon.

Take E to bed, then bath: Maske: Theary. So-so.

M to bed early.

2005/03/18. Friday. Beautiful.

3:30: to sch to get E and P and (as it turns out, multi-sports being over) DN and B too.

Agree to NB coming over for sleepover tomorrow.

2005/03/19. Saturday. A day of two halves.

Morning: thin overcast; to town (CB1: struggle but vanquish mild Sudoku/arj) to relax. And do. Go in on old black bike: the red ones rear wheel is becoming extremely unround. Replace wheel or junk bike. Do we really need four?

1:30: back home; tidy; lunch.

Afternoon: thin sun: in garden with E mostly, after D goes off to get B and ends up staying there. Transplant more bulbs etc to the apple tree bed. E is more interested in the garden than D in some ways: or less likely to be distracted. She is keen to help, to rake and dig and put in compost and so on; D too, but more likely to wander off to his own things.

Soir: bonfire, with guest appearence from Andy and some beer: good. Get rid of most of the cut down fir with huge showers of sparks, and indeed flames that will have damaged some overextended branches of the big apple.

Then DBN bed down in the tent (N in the middle by consent) and I come in, weary of my labours. Talk to pooter: wiki: Cortonin has started an RFA against me: how amusing. I am not wound up however since its 4-1 against acceptance so far. I have agreed to sleep out with the kids (A and I were having some fun with stories of dragons over the fire, but they know enough not to believe us, at least in the light), so bath then write this quickly then out for 11.

2005/03/20. Sunday. O'night gentle rain.

Woken at quarter to 7 by the dulcet tones of the children telling one another stories. Its really quite sweet. There usually has to be a baddie in there. They also have the pre-prepared yoghurt breakfast. The rain is now just about stopped. I grunt, turn over, and sleep on. I woke several times during the night, of course. The sky was oddly light: no stars: v thin cloud I guess. Until the light rain started: but not enough to make me get a bivvy bag. I didn't really need to be out there: they were asleep when I got out. But I promised. And its nice to sleep out occaisionally, hear the birds sing, etc.

Surprised to see E coming out about 8, apparently dressed and in her boots. I think she goes into the tent. Later (just before 9) she drags me inside so she can have b'fast.

Plough for lunch. Food still good but expensive, service still marginally slow. But: the Adnams is off - no-one drank it, they say. Poss. More likely some deals in the background.

Leave 4:20 to drop M off for her concert. Need to circle round to look for a parkplatz and fail, so just drop her. Back, and fairly soon need to go. Phone A+C: rather belatedly, can we leave DE with them? Yes, provided we're back by 7. OK. Since its after 5 when we arrive, there are places. F is slow but steady, and we arrive with about 10 mins to spare. Its one of those rooms that makes colleges so wonderful: down a passageway formed of walls of a variety of building, the ceiling wood vaulted, the walls glazed brick. Few people there: its the end of a weekend after all. M is there; and her "opponent" - it turns out that person #3 has pulled out with a cut finger (possible I suppose, but nerves more likely).

And... M wins! Hurrah! In fact she doesn't get declared winner, but the one through to the next round, as a "highly commended", which means (M pointed out beforehand this might happen) that no-one was considered good enough to be declared winner. But this is wonderful for her anyway.

Back: I stop to pick up DE who seem to have been good. Dinner: lentil soup by M and cheese. F takes E up to bed after M reads story. I show Mfd about domain name registration - they want better email.

Wiki.

2005/03/21. Monday.

Work. Back 6:30. All is well, except for the huge pile of washing up :-(

7:30: to Gov meeting that lasts till 10:10. I am mildly awkward (should people see the budget before voting for it?) Why did it last so long? In the middle of it I sit wondering how much we have really decided (very little: mostly rubberstamping subcommittees and stuff: though the interchange of info is somewhat useful). Could nearly 3 hours of about 15 peoples time have been better spent? Rather likely. After, Andy drags me to the pub for a swift half that turns into 1 1/2 for me and I'm not sure how many for him. JMT arrive but sit at a different table.

Then I end up doing an hours wiki/news/mail till past midnight: silly me.

2005/03/22. Tuesday. Early rain (heavy); late sun.

While I'm abed M does some of the washing up: in fact most of it.

Send D off schoolwards (he has to wait for me to cross to the school, or find another adult to take him over) and take E to M'a. She has decided to ride her bike today, which is D's old yellow one with the stabalisers back on, but she is rather slow on it. By the time I'm at sch D is already in class. Check up on E's easter thingy (11:30-12+ on thurs) with p/s.

Work: misc, very misc. Not feeling too inspired; warming from radiosondes stuff drags on (publish and be dammed, I say). OPM's for HiGEM. Pull back abmba/../d. Home at 2, stopped by Ian to say that Richard Smiley the builder can probably come to talk on thursday. Who knows, it may happen. O+C are still slow. Still time for bread and marmite, and coffee, by the fire, reading Madouc.

Sch 3:30 for DE. Weather now clearing and warmer, and we sit and watch the infants running to and fro and having fun, E on her bike, D off with N. Should NP come to us? N is very winsome. Run off and play we say, and we'll talk it over, but N convinces herslef she shouldn't let them, so I accede. Nonetheless we end up bringing Cory home: he and D go ahead, I'm with slow E. When we get home they are nowhere to be seen: not to worry.

I do some washing up, E eats choc that F brought, it turns out that DC are down by the tent which is still up. OK. E and I go to sleep by the fire and I read her Cat in the Hat and One Fish, Two Fish. Then more sleep. Sam turns up... hello. Is this allowed? Go check: yes. So now its DCS in the garden (and E sometimes, cycling on the drive, experimenting with how the bike works) and me asleep. DCS disappear streamwards with a "picnic" which they like to do. I put on some pasta and brocolli and wonder when M will be getting back as the time passes 6... Penny arrives for Sam so we go in search, gingerly stepping over the felled Elderflowers and peering up the river for them and shouting... they come eventually; time for C to go home too; others were there too (Taylor; one other). Talk to Penny re exchanges: she can have DE for friday 1st, which is our balloon day.

Inside: D not hungry but eats a bit; E more; M back past 6:30 but: she has bought some more wshing up liquid: good. She went to town at lunchtime, mostly to get 2 CDs of her peices from the library. I go to sleep on the sofa (hmmm, notice the theme of the day... largely because of last nights beer and lateness I suspect).

Soir: put up my response to the wiki:RFA (RFA accepted once it was accepted that it was on both of us, so thats OK); stoat: on not much going on :-).

To bed not too late; M stays up all hours tinkling. She's even more keen on the piano now, oddly enough.

2005/03/23. Wednesday. Pleasant.

D to sch, E and I sit around (as we often do) reading a book; the wind in the willows, in this case. Then home (via BW, so I can do some token village tidying, though there isn't much to tidy). Home, E stays out, I sit in the sun inside. 10:30: off to work, E carries her ladybird umbrella but to her distress isn't allowed to open it on the bike. There are a lot of people around the table: we have to squeeze in. After, town, German cafe, which is surprisingly empty: they are pleased to see E, as ever. And I get a relaxing lunch. After, not to pool (E didn't want to go today) but library, restore some rather old books and pay our fines. Then (since E has holes in her leggings) on a tour of childs clothes shops but none have leggings! Argh. Still we get some chalk from the ELC and nice cheese from the market.

Then back: E inists on trying to poke her umbrella into the bike wheels, don't do it sez oi, it will break the umbrella and poss the bike. When we get to sch E is distressed to find that it has indeed worn the unmbrella somewhat. Cake sale: get some little ones to eat then. I take E home (she wants to cycle with me: unusual). When MD get back I go off to the allot to dig.

And a good one too: tidy the front; using carpet, join up the front two patches so the irritating grass/weed incursions from the strip between can't happen. Plant 4 rows of broad bean and 2 of red onions (the pre-winter ones are there, and growing too). Then home: tired but happy. Tidy a bit more dead tree. Bram comes round looking for JE; they turn out to be inside with D. They borrow Lucky Luke in french: they are learning it, says Bram (M afterwards says *JE* say that don't speak it and would only look at the pix...).

Dinner: I'm late, so bath first, then come down for noodles. Put E to bed (M is on a piano jag and can't be interrupted), but M reads to D.

RFA: SEW weighs in (even using his real name) against me of course and in favour of Morner. Sigh/reply.

2005/03/24. Thursday. Warm. Full moon.

I need to talk to the builder, Mr Smiley (really) who, even better, is not called Richard as I thought bur Robert. Who could not employ Bob the Builder, esp as no-one ever seems to need to pay him :-). So anyway, that means I'm skipping work this morning, and many others will prob do the same as we get the pm off. On of the last remaining joys of ex-govt employment is a few "priviledge days".

So, after seeing DE off, I settle down to some coffee and wiki, etc. Then I bestir myself and tidy somewhat, so that Robert, Ian and I can actually sit at the table and spread out plans. They arrive at about 10:30 on time, and we chat and seem to get on well and discuss prices (18/90k) and... oh rats, I was supposed to see Ian this evening and I forgot... hang on, I'll mail him.

Anyway, after that to p/s for the tails end of E's easter egg hunt, and it seems she has found an egg or two though I think she ate them; she is cutely wearing some bunny ears she has made. M'a comes along so I relinquish cute E. Off to work quickly, to drop bee labels with Mike M; thence to town, firstly to pick up E's cycle helmet which I correctly guess we left in the library, then to waste and hour in cb1 trying to do the sudoku. Rob surrenders me the paper because its a fiendish; he sings my praises to the woman he is with, but I disappoint him: some progress, but not finished, when I have to leave. Get coloured chalk from the german toy shop: not only far cheaper than ELC, but better quality.

So... back to sch in time, just for the easter assembly. Which features about what you would expect: songs and words. D sings his "i'm a real spring chicken" song along with his class, and with the moves too, as he has been practising at home. When D isn't singing, I work at the sudoku and make progress. M has come too.

After... well... so... the plan is for D not to go to home club, but to go to B's. Then N wants to come too. Then B is rather tired and bursts into tears and... well, in the end, DN do go, but not to stay for dinner. Right: so M and I off home. M mails; I wiki.

Then I pick up DN from B's at 5:30 and send them home, and go collect E, who is a bit distressed that I have the "wrong" bike. M feeds them, though mostly boiled eggs.

2005/03/25. Friday. Ends in sun.

Nice long lie in, then a rather slow morning, sliding into pm. Papers and web. About 1 I drag DE off to the orchard, partly to see if we can buy an easter egg for them, partly to give M a chance to practice. D decides to cycle; E is disuaded eventually. Along the way encounter Ian and discuss choice of builders.

D has a waffle, and eats all of it; E a chocolate cake, both hot choc. Then they run around outside doing something or another, while I do the fiendish sudoku and feel pleased with self. We don't get easter eggs - they don't seem terribly interested, M has some fairly small ones at home anyway, but we buy some small ones to make an easter egg hunt with.

Supposed to be leaving at 4 but in practice, ten to 5. By now its a beautiful soft late afternoon of sunlight; a pleasure to pack the car by. This time E volunteers to go to the loo rather than having to be forced to.

To Ma's. E fairly whingey in the car "are we there yet..." etc etc then strange groans. First thing: eat some peanuts. Ma is just getting dinner ready. Creme caramels are a bit over-caramelised, but if I scrape them they are OK, though M likes them like that.

Jokes over dinner: D: "why did the two worms *not* go into noahs ark in an apple?" because... they had to go in p(ai|ea)rs. E: "why did the shark cross the road?" because... it wanted to eat grandma. Or daddy: I forget which.

M puts E to bed while I help with the washing up; D reads Calvin+Hobbes. They are sleeping downstairs tonight.

Later: "my hero" then the Two Ronnies. Which is still pretty good, at least in parts, still of its time. I feel v tired around 8 and lie to sleep on the sofa but slowly wake up towards bedtime.

2005/03/26. Sat. Again good weather.

Something (the paper?) sez this is the third driest winter since rec began (188x). I again lie in late, though not as late as I thought, since I think I woke quite early. DE seem to have woken themselves up quietly: D comes in to inquire after C+H which is not where he left it cos I was reading it.

I get a quiet b'fast after all else; coffee, toast, ojuice and shreddies with xs sugar, the latter quietly hoping D won't notice. And he doesn't. After, outside to finish coffee and the paper. Ma's marble table is looking a bit... well, dirty; lichen-in-the-pores perhaps. Ma has scrubeed it; I have another go (using Ajax! that looks like its been around since I was young; and glass paper); improves it somewhat but more elbow grease, or a power sander/polisher, is required.

Weather is still passable so, leaving ME, drag D out for a walk. He is a touch reluctant but in the end we have a really good time, mostly down by the canal at the nearest lock. First we went to the swing bridge, then saw a boat in the lock and went to look; and then a whole succession came through. My impression is that its faster than the silly electric locks on the Cam. In one go, 4 1/2 narrowboats got in. D keen to help, pushing the lock gates and such, and since he is cute and people are friendly it works well. At last drag him away; we go over the swing bridge (left open by the last barge; ask another to close it for us) then down the far footpath I've never taken before, which is a small new wood, quite pleasant. Then we need to walk back, under the railway, to the Duke of W, thence to the marina (which D keeps on calling the arena) where we have a drink, D being quite parched, and watch the boats - seems quite busy. Then home, for lunch, others already finished; I eat (w'cress soup; D won't touch it) and D nibbles.

RNLT sort-of expected at 3; he phones to say 4; then why not met at Ashridge? Yes, OK. So (M left sleeping on the sofa) we (MeDEMa) head off at 3:45 and get there just at 4; no sign of the others so we climb up the monument (free cos we are NT) leaving Ma at the bottom to greet them. Its quite a way up, fortunately with enough room to squeeze past descenders; as far as I can tell it is solid blocks of granite. It is to Francis, 3rd Duke of Bridgewater, "father of inland navigation" 1832. From the top we have wide views, especially up to the House, though its slightly hazy. We can't see Ivinghoe beacon, because its behind something else, it not really being the highest hill around but only the one at the end of the chain. See R's car turn up, and wave to them far down below; they come up, R holding T who has hurt his toe, L gives me lots of detail about a cycle accident. N hot here: she is staying at home to work on her course for training GPs.

Down; to the visitors centre to look at things (inc a stuffed weasel and a stoat, which is noticeably bigger). TE eventually grow bored and want i'creams so R takes them out; DL have to be dragged away eventually. I'creams for all on the edge of the wood - ET looking esp cute - then explore a bit, there is a little lake at this time of year, or maybe we've not been to that bit before. Then, the sun fading, and the chill coming, we head home, arriving about 6: L in our car and E in Robs.

I race M over the easy sudoku (the torygraph has them now: but they call easy gentle) and to my surprise I win by quite a margin. She is still better at the fiendish though.

Stoat: myths of the near future, part II. Takes me till late.

2005/03/27. Sunday. Much colder. Clocks (spring) forward.

I get up first today (ie, before M; Ma is already off at church); downstairs DL are watching "totally spies" which I quite like. They have had b'fast so again my guilty secret goes unseen. Try the griddler... progress, and I am well towards working it out, the top is correct, but I get muddled in the middle. Argh.

Sent out to trim the laurel; kids come out too and help somewhat. There was some thing about a honeysuckle too but I don't get round to that.

Lunch: full meal, excellent. Close (enough) to good behaviour from the kids.

Henry arrives, with a diary-type thing of his trip to NZ in 2004, which of course is of interest to me because of next Dec. His diary is much like my on-line ones, though of course my pics are better.

Rob goes to get J+J because (as Henry points out: I have forgotten!) its the baot race, at 3. It starts a little late, and is exciting: Oxford edge ahead to begin, less than a length; then Cambrdige pull back to near level, then Ox gain on their curve and end up with clear water and win by 2+ lengths. Hooray! D is puzzled who to support: since he lives in Cambridge. I advise him to support Ox, and he does.

And so, afternoon tea with J+J and H. Misc talk as ever. J is getting really rather frail: walks with a stick and needs a hand too. Lots of cakes and scones: in fact too many cakes, or our stomachs are too small. I take JJ back, in Robs car, which is rather more active than ours and with a heavier clutch which confuses me.

Bathtime: M/R do ET; I do DL. They have great fun creating bubbles and pouring them over each others heads, turning round in turns to let the other thwack them. Bedtime: E insists on M taking her up, so she does; but she gives me two kisses in compensation. Upstairs, some kind of sadness occurs.

Soir: play vid of M's concert (and her practice) to RMa; discussion. Read Robs "Gateway" the Brize mag. His editorials astonish, as they did in Inn Touch: "an article without of photo is like a labour cabinet member: not re(a)d". Or: "while the nation struggles to be interested in which conservative party wins the next election...".

2005/03/28. Monday. Becomes sunny.

Why do I write a short weather summary at the head of each line? Mostly because of how it impacts my mood. So to quite some extent what I write there reflects the weather on my mood, or even vice versa, rather than any kind of accurate analytical obs of the weather. Anyway...

Today is Easter monday, but no-one really notices that. We are to leave "at 11" but don't. More tidying of fallen laurels in the back garden, and Rob helps before getting sidetracked by playing football with Toby with two laurel bracnhes stuck in the ground for posts. E comes out later and sticks a whole forest in. Indeed E (and D too) is so cute this morning that my resolve weakens and I propose we stay for the lunchtime picnic in Ashridge. But M is keen to get back to practice and work on her CV so we do go and my moment of weakness comes to naught.

M drives us back; we listen to CD 2 of the Hobbit (again). Home: lunch: quick check of mail/wiki (all sane) then off to allot: 2-6, a long session. Take lawnmower to beautify the grass and just about fill up the compost bin, hopefully it will subside. The weather is lovely - work topless - and at the end, by my count of paces, 43 yards are sane and 34 yards are still in need of attention. "sane" means dug over well or mown grass. The rest is mostly not too bad, but in sore need of digging at least. Plant out 2 rows pots and 1 row garlic.

Home: M is still practicing. Long bath. Soir: wiki misc, check adsense (300+ on friday, from TL post), etc etc.

2005/03/29. Tuesday. Cold.

To work, though not esp early. Feeling somewhat tired, poss cos I didn't get to bed till 12 and didn't sleep till much later, partly cos M didn't come up till then. Ah well. Misc work. Brian Gardner's presentation at 11: 37 years at BAS! 2: where to go? Vacillate. Decide on town in the end, since I'm fuzzy. To Heffers cafe again: with latest McCall-Smith and a Tim Powers. Read about 1/3 of M-S when... a stranger approaches. How rude, to want to share my table, and approach so briskly, not diffident at all, thinks I. But... it is Allan McR. A nice surprise. We chat, on a variety of intellectual topics: he is good for such. Efrons dice; choice; camera obscura on Gt St M's; my cl ch talk; etc. Then: quick look in Ox (nothing) and home (stopping at Ians along the way but he seems to be out). Rest. Knock-knock: who is calling at this time? It is Ian: he just failed to catch me: we discuss contracts: he is to write one up for phase 1 with RS. Start next tues, poss. Good. 14 weeks.

Cut lawns: front and back. Scatter some buffalo dung on the lawn as fertiliser. Will it help? Then out to dig: I have some strawbs from Russ that need to go in (they have been sitting at my office since last weds). Dig over nearest, expand a bit, and emplace: this takes an hour and I am weary. More rest... its a hard life with no kids. M back. We settle to our respective r100's. She has been to Nasreen Dah: excellent: spicy potato cakes, my favourite.

Phone Ma at bedtime: children are happy and so it seems is she!

Soir: misc. M plays. I read In the ocean of night, which is still good. Then wiki/misc.

2005/03/30. Wednesday. Rain.

Up at 9. Slow b'fast while M off to work. I have a free morning but I'm not feeling sprightly... in fact, I vom up. Then I feel somewhat better. Read CG's fluxes-at-70S paper and mail him: will it help our sondes trends? Unlikely. Slow.

M back 2:40 so I head off to pick up infants from Ma. We agreed to meet 1/2 way at the Marston Moretaine forest centre. The trees have grown up a bit since last time: some of the willows up to 5-6 feet. If you were sensible, you would plant the forest then build the visitors centre 10 years later. Inside: hello DE and Ma. They (DE, not Ma) are having a fight over who gets to turn the spindle on a display. The displays are not holding out well: several are now broken. Hey ho. Its all about recycling, forests, bricks, etc. Outside is a faint drizzle so we stay in. DE have been to visit Alice and have Ł2 apiece: D wants to save his, E is determined to spend hers on a pink purse and will not be dissuaded so M takes her off to do so.

When we have to leave, E is v sad, in tears: partly tiredness, partly leaving Ma. They seem to ahve a good time with her and she has no complaints. This morning to some kind of childs-play-warehouse on the crooked billet ind estate. Fortunately E falls asleep soon so her sad tears stop; D and I listen to CD 2 of the hobbit.

Home: I feel tired. E goes in to M, sad again, and cuddles up and is read cat in the hat. D goes for the computer.

7:15: out to GP meeting in univ arms: misc. Fin 9; back :30; wiki, this, mail, the usual. Need to print some stuff then early bed.

2005/03/31. Thursday. Dull.

Another day in which I feel fairly unwell in the morning, slow in the afternoon, but bright and active in the evening. Which means I end up staying up too late and the cycle repeats...

With kids till 10 while M is off for a piano lesson: it went well, Ilga is pleased with her. To work (via A+C, to get their sigs on myn nom and Andys on his; he is in bed in the conservatory...), in time for coffee. And then of course the kick-off Accent meeting. I start off on the right foot by doing a "difficult" sudoku during the meeting and (with one guess which turns out right) have it solved by the end, helped by a certain amount of idle chit-chat from others leaving me fre to think. After that talk to Aj re poster (needs more sea ice from her) and TLC re misc. Then its time for lunch. Sigh, its a busy life. With PSA and RCAH and Ed King. Then finaly get to read my mail; and home at 2:45.

Sam, Dak (*still here*) and D down the garden, D somewhat annoyed with S/Dak for losing some of the new white playdo, and possibly because he is getting squeezed out between S and Dak at his own house (just guessing). Perhaps unfortunate that Dak was allowed back after lunch. Inside, E and Katie and M are having happy fun with playdo. I get a brief rest then need to find my GP elec stuff then take Sam/K home (Sam v politely saying "thanks for having me"). I go in, and get Penny's sig on AM's form, and check tomorrow is OK.

Then to Cambourne, to hand over the 5 nom papers so far completed. Anne as ever is friendly and helpful whilst sticking absolutely to the limits of the rules. While I'm waiting for the check, look over those left: me; AM-by-me; JG; MB; DT; SE; SN. yes, all present (or not) and correct. Sadly, Simons is *not* all in order: one of his was under 18 (an error in my software to allow that on the roll: must correct). So... decide to post it, then realise time is tight so drive to Bassingbourn and hand it over to Jaq who I find in the driveway. So not home till 5: argh.

Later: Ian comes round (I called but he was out) to say that the works can start on tuesday. OK. That means I (I? of course just I) need to clear out the sheddy bit etc. Decide to make a start, because I can't decide if just all monday will do, or if I have to stay here this weekend. Complicating factor is that if I'm really busy I can skip doing AM's bar hill paper, which I half want to do, but... well anyway. D helps somewhat; I pull stuff out and he takes things down to the garden shed. Which of course needs some sorting out too. Not clear at this stage whether we will need a skip: unlikely though. So after about 1h the bike-shed bit is mostly empty, well perhaps 2/3 would be honest. Then D and I have a quick bonfire (smoke! spreads: not a good evening for it, inversion weather) to get rid of most of rest of the pine. E is now ready for bed and M to go out: E wants to see bonfire so I take her down quickly then read to her. D meanwhile has read his own story and wants a game of ladybirds instead. OK. I experiment near the end by pointing out that the game has no skill: he half grasps the point but not fully.

Do some tidying up, having become quite righteous about it; but the washing up is still there... oh OK I'll do it now. 11:10.

Tuesday, 1 February 2005

Diary February 2005

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2005/02/01. Tuesday.

Take E to M'a, but she has chosen sandals and M'a wants to take her to the park and its quite wet, so would like E in boots. Let D cycle schoolwards (he must wait for someone to help him cross road) and cycle back to get boots. Find D at sch OK.

Work: busy again; vacs meeting takes up 11-12.

Leave just before 2; gentle rain. Had intended to dig on allotment, and vacillate, but end up doing so. Spend 1/2 hour of hard work turning over 2 sq m of grass at the back. Good.

Home, hmm, decide on a quick bit of Civ and a snatch of food.

Sch; E is happy to see me and runs into my arms, I can forgive her much for that. Chat with M'a about where they have been (Pats, Chesterton). D would like P to come round. Ask N: OK. N is off elsewhere but Nelson looks wistful and D wants him so invite him too - why not? Its not fair for just E to have a friend as D says (N slightly disapproving, because it should be beneath N to play with younger kids, but N knows we have some computer games he hasn't seen...). So home we go, D and Ne ahead on their bikes, I wheel E and P is on his bike, somewhat unsteadily.

I am expecting the gas people (wrongly, as it turns out: thats for the 2nd) so we get back by 4. And we end up having a good afternoon. At one point D Ne are playing stunt rally, and P is watching, and E feels left out. But mostly its harmonious. D Ne play with some of our puzzles; then they go up and play with capsela and build a "ship" for the bath, so EP get to play winnie the witch. So I get to sit quietly and mostly play Civ, getting a good emperor game going.

Start cooking 5:30: pasta; with "sauce" of sos/onion/aub. But the children will only eat the sos bit, so I force brocolli and peas down them too. Its a bit odd having Ne here too, because his comments are a bit more sensible and his attitude rather more mature. And he doesn't shout.

N and N turn up at 6:20 so I invite them in, since they are just ready for pudding (the trifle D chose but doesn't want to eat) and it would be a shame for them to miss. N is abit reluctant but allows N in anyway and hustles them along. M arrives about now and we chat to N, who complains of the weather (seems OK to me) but she has to cycle all the way into parkside for her course.

And so I leave the tidying to M and NNeNP leave.

Misc soir, much online, also some tidying. M spends a long time settling D and then pianos.

News at 10: longish piece on climate change focussed on Alaska.

2005/02/02. Wednesday.

A fairly std wednesday. D to sch; E and I home, quietly. To smoko, then pool, then arj/cb1, then lib, then about time to be home.

The same old round, but you know where you are with a wednesday, will this keep up till E is in school or will she decide she prefers to go to p/s on wed, as she could?

Sch: M is there. Vivian comes over for her planned visit, and all is harmonious.

The gas man does come, exactly on time, surprise, and an even bigger surprise: he is quite happy to work in the constricted space left by my workwork, could not be more obliging, fixes on the new meter with no trouble and in little time, leaves no mess and politely restarts the pilot light on the boiler. And there is no charge. Transco, I think. Well, that was *far* better than my expectations.

Soir: I forget exactly what, but given I'm writing this on Sunday evening I'm fairly sure most of the evening was lost to Civ.

2005/02/03. Thursday.

Work as ever; leave a bit late; dig for 1/2 hour on allotment then home. Intending to do various useful things but get a bit sucked into Civ, hey ho.

Pick up E from M'a who has shingles so would rather have tomorrow off: OK. Poor her. I'd rather look after E than have shingles... :-)

Stop off on way back at Jenni's to pick up D; Shrek 2 is just finishing and it *is* rather good; I usually get to see the dramatic finales. They have done interesting things with their extension (a quarry tiled exercise room and office somehow packed in) with some kids stuff in the basement. Take B too; they have some baking, "stained glass biscuits" involves melting some sweet in the middle I think.

Soir: finance ctte meeting, my first, though there are rumours that I've been on the cttee for a while. All a bit hush-hush so I won't write it down here.

2005/02/04. Friday. M'a sick.

Lie in bed and listen to E screaming at M, thats odd, she usually does it at me. Chivvy D up, and downstairs E is tearful but quietish. What is wrong with her this morning? Just ratty it seems. Anyway, D sch late (he has to go off to the office to register) and E p/s, by this time she has calmed down and we stroke molly-the-dog.

Work, but briefly, cos M'a is sick so I have to pick up E at 12. Restart runs: diskspace: archiving failed. Wah.

Go to see IMcG and finally find him in: Phil-t-B hasn't replied yet but should v soon; other considerations.

Take E to orchard. She is a teensy bit fragile but OK. We have cheese toasty, soup and chocolate cake: good. She plays outside while I read the paper, since they have all the play houses just outside. Maybe we should get one... would be a handy bikeshed too when we lose the shed.

Home. E should really get some sleep but doesn't want to. Agree that if she plays quietly it will be OK and it is. She does "cutting" and makes a sort of frilly pattern round the economists envelope. In turn the economist mildly annoys me by it cl ch article.

3:30: to sch to pick up P. They run around, I talk to N, and then to Mrs S (who asks, are there probs getting D to sch, because we've been late a bit recently. Oops. Ask her, could I try to look at the sandpit a bit? And try to fix the lids. OK, but its not clear what to do). EP run around, though not together. At 4 ish head home, P on my handlebars. Stop at BW to play for a while, and then its not worth going home so back to sch for DN. We're not taking A; it looks like the 3-way round is back to 2-way. M turns up at same time, but oddly no one else wants to go back in the car so DN cycle and P rides on my handlebars and E in the back and we wobble home.

The afternoon works quite well, in that I don't have to do very much :-)

Dinner is instant potato which D used to love but now like me he doesn't. No-one else keen on it either so we can write that off. N arrives 6:30 during pudding, a creme caramel 4-pack. Discuss 1/2 term: we can swap thurs/fri.

And so peace and quiet descends.

Time for Miranda's bed. She goes upstairs to the loo then comes down for me to put her pygamas on. But... she is wet. Did you go to the loo? Yes? And did you take you trousers off? No, I wee'd in them. Argh. This is not the first time. E, you are naughty. E: I think its funny. Hmmm. Pygamas on: bottoms fine, the new pink/grey ones, but then she doesn't want the same top, and this ends up with her screaming out "I don't want matching pygamas" as M carries her upstairs. Hey ho.

Soir: finally get rid of one weight on my back by writing up a draft of an Exeter conference report, intended for RC, or my blog. GS slightly surprises me by not objecting to it, so that means it will need a bit of polish. Also a quick stoat: on the economist, which is being its usual somewhat sketpical and not very knowledgeable self on GW.

The an extended Civ sesh, getting rid of the Germans and the Mongols (the poor old germans never got past Berlin) and (as always) being a bit premature about some other fights. Wiki stable.

All this takes me to nearly midnight.

2005/02/05. Saturday.

Not up till 10:30: feeling rather tired. M has decided to try the exciting expt of w/rose on Sunday, so she is around.

1:30 take DE and leave M to practice, pick up B (A is feeling sick) and end up with Dak too (and a ticket to the evenings show), who was playing at B's and there seems no reason not to take him. Clare offers me his entrance money but I don't see why *she* should be paying. Dak is a good child: wears a slightly dubious skull sweatshirt but is very polite and well behaved. This is either his true nature or because he likes being invited out. But either way it works.

Hang around briefly at pool entrance cos its not quite two: the kids look at the sweetie machine and try to decide what they will have. Brief moment of unease when I say "1 adult 4 kids" and the man says "at least 2 over 8?", but I have read the sign saying "kids under 8 must be accompanied" and have guessed this is coming, so am able to instantly say yes. And D would pass for 8 anyway, at least he would if he wasn't being silly (the contrast between his behaviour and Daks is painful; but some is perhaps because he is attention seeking, from me or Dak I don't know).

Pool: OK; DBDak have great fun as always. By contrast, E is more clingy than ever and stays by the steps half in the water "doing my exercises", even though I've just bought her new duck armbands. She only half wanted to come. Maybe not bring her next time? Would she let M get her practice in if left at home?

Leave just after the floats at 3 - I'm a bit nervous about being in an emptier pool when my looking after 4 will be too obvious; and E is getting cold. All get sweeties - this is now firmly established in their minds as a right.

Stop on way back at the orchard - drinks and a cake apiece for the kids. Dak shows the right attitude - hunger - in contrast again to my mangy infacts who eat half their cakes and then stop: Dak wolfs his down and their remains too. Then they go play hide-and-seek amongst the huts and stuff - its an excellent place for it - while I find a compost bin and some reduced-to-50p growbags.

Back: drop off DBDak at B's and as half-hoped D can stay; not E though cos G is off at a party poor E. She is a bit sad at this but happy to see M.

Realise I forgot the "gate" to the bin so go back and get one; they make no problems. Drop off grow bags at allotment and arrange them to suppress grass while they are waiting.

Soir: out at 8 to the "Amazing spectacles" (the lineup is Justin, Polly, Gary and... one other, sorry I forget who). This is a PTA fundraiser that I am reluctantly attending as I am traditionally grumpy about this kind of thing. Shock number 1 is that its not rows-of-seats but tables-with-nibbles and so I have to find someone to sit with. Fortunately this is not hard as Dorthe is alone, though Rachel will be there, and Clare joins us. Format is a series of "games"... parlour games-ish I suppose. "Serial murder" etc. And all "improv". And... it was fun. I would go again, mildly. Gossip after with DRC - we've all had a few.

2005/02/06. Sunday.

Hear DE go downstairs for breaksfast. E wakes me up at 8:30 - can't remember what for, fairly trivial, but its a fair cop and I get up. She wants to play parties and I don't really want b'fast yet so we go lay out a dinner party in the living room. Later this turns into a slow tidy up of l'room and kitchen. M comes down about 11 and I finally have some food.

12: we *all* head off to w/rose: yes by popular request I am going to the Hell of Mammon, the kids want me to have lunch with them. And if I only have to sit in the cafe bit I suppose its OK. Its fairly crowded (good for Mr W, bad for parking) but we do get a seat and the curry for lunch is good. M heads off to shop; then D runs off to find her - why not, he can't get lost - and after a while I take E to them too. Then settle down with some orange juice and Socialist Worker, which I subversively leave behind when called away.

Home: time to put in the new compost bin. I've finally succumbed and got a plastic one, in the hope that it might be rat-proof (as it coyly says, "discourages unwelcome visitors"). The entire bottom bit needs a cleanout: the old bike, the push-mower, the hand-plough, the derelict wheel barrow that was the fire site. Push that to one side; demolish old compost head and sieve compost into barrow and put on garden. Level ground. Keep old gate as base and erect bin on that. Fill from old heap, with layers of leaves and newspaper to leaven it - the rat has mixed in soil which makes it a bit heavy. Bin ends up nearly full - I hope it will settle. Spread grass seed and hope this will be the begining of a new era. Ponder how long this all takes which leads to a stoat:.

In. Rest: a bit of Civ. Far endgame now, just tidying up, only the greeks left and they won't be there for long. D a bit bored - play scrabble with M; E joins in on M's team. I tidy, in fact we both do, and end up with the kids 1/2 in good order. Ours still has piles of papers lying around.

5:30: out for bonfire: my tidy has left quite a lot of wood to burn, so we have a good fire and when its got going and we're just watching, and E has gone in, S and I discuss carbon, diamond, hydrogen and oxygen, ancient forests and CO2. Then D goes in too (not because he's bored with the science - he likes that) and I watch the flames. In.

Soir: polish up RC post on Exeter; wiki; stoat; mail; news. Finish off the greeks and end with 271%, "cleopatra the magnificent" in 1933. I'm glad thats done. Buy a copy of the odd "physical geo" textbook with the cooling quote from abebooks; $24 all told is OK to make a complete collection.

Somehow I have ended up finishing this at midnight again, though I intended to go to bed much earlier. Bad William. M was bathing till 11:30.

2005/02/07. Monday. Frost and sun.

D to sch on time, E to pgp, then me to work. Start off by posting off the RC piece with a few corrections. Then a rather misc day. Yoga in the middle - first for ages, good to see Janet back. Because the the bios are back from their cruises.

Last thing I check the cluster and discover its down; reboot; but node12 still sad. So swap its disk with the defunct node4 and - ta da - 1/2 hour later its hap-hap-happy. Then go home.

Tomorrow is going-to-Exeter day and I get the 7:15 train, oh joy, so I shall go to bed early.

At home, dinner is in progress. Phone Clare to see about her having D tomorrow (M'a will do E) and yes, after home club. M has arranged D for b'fast club tomorrow so that will be exciting for him.

E to bed, a bit unhappily (probably because I'm putting her pygamas on not M; or maybe she is just tired) but only a bit. D stays up past 8:30 with M reading to him (Wind in the Willows except from the Big Blue Book) and is the worst for being late. Up to bed for him.

Wiki: fairly stable: Cortonin has learnt how to use ISI but not wisely (of course). Check RC: OK, but I'm getting q's about WAIS that I would rather not.

2005/02/08. Tuesday. Dark!

Yes, dark, because I have to get up at 6:25 to have a quick bath (I smell) then cycle off through dark to just-before-dawn to the station in the chill. Get my ticket, but the price! An astonishing £160 - can you believe that? I barely could. Still, with a long queue behind me and 2 mins to catch the train I had no time to argue, but I did just have time to buy Viz.

Doze on train down to KC and read Viz a bit. Worryingly, the train is going rather slowly, enough to make me worry about my connection, but it finally stumbles in not too late. U'gnd as unpleasant as ever; Padders; 9:05 is pretty empty (not surprising, given the price) and settle down. Watch the scenery (often surprisingly beautiful, especially with a thin ground fog and clear sky) and the flat plains of the west country before the hills begin; beautiful rivers; snooze; read HadGEM internal report. Arrive on time; taxi to UKMO, which stops outside the barriers cos its a pain for him to get out again. But thats OK, I'm far enough away that I can photo it for wiki: do so: need to take a panorama. And while I'm doing so nice young security guard says 'ello, may I ask your business. So I explain. He says, OK, but I'm afraid you're not allowed to take photos, this is MOD. !?!?!. So we go in, and I end up being allowed to keep the photos - exterior is OK, says his boss - but have to hand my camera in - apparently this is std policy, and the receipt book seems to confirm that. And while this goes on Alison comes down to collect me.

Spend about 1h on the hadgem ice paper that she/ann are writing, and so am I apparently, excellent, an easy ref for me. They have the figs and we talk them over with Jeff too, and a draft exists. Various suggestions. This paper is needed, it seems, so it can be cited by IPCC AR4.

Lunch in "the street" cafe which is brand shiny new, quite nice, but distinctly noisy, a teensy bit like w/rose. The noise is because its all totally open plan, no barriers. Helene Joins us.

After, discussion with Ian S and Malcolm R about various HiGEM issues (coupled has run for 1 month but there is an overwriting problem in the ocean UV-grid fields, very odd it sounds), then further misc ideas for future progress and work, and how to end up meeting more often. I think I've discovered that getting down there for the day is not so bad, so would be prepared to do it more often; but meeting up in London (RMS or starbucks or sci mus) might be better.

Taxi back with Ian S: talk HiGem and odd overwriting and stuff. Get 4:03 no problem; smooth trip back and I an bored enough to read Hoskers, McI and Robertson on PV thinking. But it has lots of big equs in it. Leave Ian S at KC - he goes back via Liverpool St - and the 7:15 is not too crowded, I get a seat *with one next to me spare* good heavens. Re-open the rather long closed book of Penrose and read about Fibre Bundles. Hmm.

Home 8:45 as D's bedtime story finishes and kiss him goodnight. Eat a little. Sort out regular online things. I think I'll write a stoat: on my ticket price.

Bed 11:20.

2005/02/09. Wednesday. Gray.

Or is it grey? I've a bit of a spelling fiend for Vapour or Sulphur, but for gr(a|e)y I can't remember which is the British spelling.

E wakes up some time in the night - about 5 - and M has a hard time comforting her - a nightmare I think. Then she comes into bed with us and wants to get up at 7:30 but M is groggy and given y'day I'm not getting up. So we all 3 lie in bed awake... hmpf.

Finally up 8:25 which is rather late. Skip b'fast for now, chivvy D along, M is off, DE to sch, and by some miracle we are in time for D. Mrs S comments that D hasn't done his homework "extras" and I have to confess that we're a bit poor on that, but promise to do better. Bring E back home and play. We do a "stained glass window" together - butterflies. E decides she is one of them and D is the other and we colour them appropriately.

Decide not to swwim today - both of us. E v keen to go to work though so we do in fair time. Coffee for me and jaffa cakes for her. Discuss higem/hadgem with AJ and JCK and misc with others. AJ has brought E a new hair-tie and braids her hair for her which E loves. After: go look in the machine room to see whats up with minifer and the answer turns out to be "Kernel panic: Aiee!" which I consider most amusing and bring JCK in to see it. Reboot; OK; restart jobs; OK. See TLC in JCKs office! So he is back: we were wondering at smoko. Poor TLC: DAC falklands has sabotaged his season and the entire trip was a total waste of time. Meet Janet going in just as we're cycling off.

To town: library: take back the old books (mostly unread I think) and get new: its the being there and getting books that she likes. And I get to read Asterix and the Laurel Wreath, which is quite good.

Look round Dixons and Game - for no good reason. They are doing some digging outside and the noise upsets E. E has wee'd her panties (argh) so dry them at the handdryer in the toilets. Thence to German cafe where the woman enthuses over E in a very pleasant way and E behaves nicely. She gets a free chocolate :-) and they are kind enough to ask me for permission before offering it.

Quickly to oxfam and w/s, then cycle back, E complaining somewhat of cold (this from E who refused to wear a coat this morning saying "I like the cold").

Sch 3:30, catching up M just at the M11. Home. Put clothes into dryer, then settle down to mail and web. Morner! Argh. D (with some persuasion) does do his "extras" homework: finding things around the house in kg/lb.

I have made $0.82 from stoat!

Viv is brought round 5 - just when we were wondering if she was coming - though Cory is round too. She is quite quiet and shy at the moment, she and E are upstairs doing I-know-not-what in the bathroom.

Dinner: pancakes (we forgot y'day): good. D makes his own, and would have made everyones if we'd let him. After, he tries making carrot juice, sort-of mices with apple juice. I put it in the blender, and we agree that we don't much like just carrot juice.

I put E to bed with no real complaints (from either of us...). D wants to watch me playing Civ but I'm not.

Soir: put up 2005/01. Check RC: all OK. And the usual things. Install photoshop elements, I can't rememeber why, on this machine at least it can open files! Also panorama maker, which came with the camera, because I wanted to paste together the UKMO pics for wiki: do this.

Also: finally put up the NY Times pdf's re cooling that SR sent in Jan. Also mail him to apologise.

J/Mfd make multiple attempts to send pics of Ernie+Ruthie's wedding; we get all of them, but some have funny .dat file names; this all gets explained eventually.

And now its 11. M has been playing since 10, and is fortunately past the exercises onto music.

2005/02/10. Thursday. Rain. 80kg.

D sch well on time (perhaps mindful of my ire on earlier days he has got up early, finished his breakfast early, put on is socks and shoes and rucksac and is ready well ahead of time. I praise him) so we go into class for a bit. E p/s; work: misc; JT has been to Hades meeting poor him. The yadm? runs are starting to finish.

This afternoon is open a'noon at sch; also I have conceived a sudden desire for a USB drive; so to town and buy a 120G one from R/S (maxtor) for £149. Perhaps a bit more than I wanted to pay but I have it *now*. W/s for a bit of lunch and a read of... something... which turns out to be a sci-fi novel remaindered; and the disk manual (which amounts to little more than: plug it in and it will work).

Back just after 3:30 so go in and look through D's work. Lots of parents there. Nominally I am also (in my governor role) there to look at anyone who has no parent but that doesn't seem to be necessary. Look through D's books with him: work folder; project; pink book; etc. And the picture he made for the blind person and the braille alphabet. And talk about tree houses. Then he wants to show me around class so does a bit, especially the electrical circuits box. Then its time for him to be off to home club and me home: I haven't really had lunch. Stomach still a bit queasy... though this can be hard to distinguish from hunger! I am down to 80kg as of last night, which is good.

So, home through rain, read paper, check watchlist (not too bad: new good guy MK around), drink tea, eat toast. Plug in new drive, install software, and set it to backup our machine.

Get happy D 5:45 and let him go home; get happy E; home. Backup still going... probably took 2h in all, at what looked like about 200 Mb/min (instantaneously) or its summary was 450 Mb/min. That includes verify. Much better than tapes. Then copy all of D: onto it so I can swap photos. This is really useful and much faster and more convenient that the wireless networking, which is clumsy across windows.

Dinner is omlette by M with a cheese stick added, which is fun, but neither D or E are keen. Wash up while M puts E to bed.

Read D "the phoenix and the carpet" fragment from the Big Blue Book (thanks C+A); maybe I should get the whole story (maybe I should have today).

Soir: more online (M is also online most of evening...) and more photo xfer; its a bit of a pain to sync correctly... rsync? Maybe. M shifts to piano at 10:30.

2005/02/11. Friday. Damp.

Tom is back at work and seems happy enough after his disastrous season. Higem/Hadgem de-brief with AJ/JCK. Phil has pictures of his season: trip on dodgy Russian aircraft, and transfer across Ant on a fabric-winged biplane!

Stop off at the pub for a half and a read of Moberg et al in Nature that Martin Miller has kindly lent me. Interesting stuff.

Back at 3:10, just about worth going inside... but... where is my key? Argh. Left in D's bag from y'day. So... to shed, where I may have a spare. Yes? Well, I certainly have a rat tunnel, and, inside the box where the key might be I have 3 little mice. Hmpf. I need to come down here more often. Turf out the mice, well they turf out themselves really, find key, but its the dodgy one that doesn't really work, so I try it for 5 mins and resolve to throw it away but forget, then go collect E. M'a wants me to sign her passport appl but I need my passport # and ML still has it. Must mail him.

To sch; cake sale is on. E tells me she has made a biscuit - where is it E? - but she means, and they are on sale. So we buy one, maybe the very one she made. P turns up then N so I leave E with her. Back to Ians and he now has the quote and we talk it over. Phase 1 price is high - £18k - but phase 2 is low, and poss not to be trusted. So... Ian will ask go over it with him. Pick up D's bike and MS says JM would like computing help... which turns out to mean finding the camedia pictures... manage in the end, and get a cup of tea for it. Cycle home carrying D's bike in thin rain. So the garden is out (wimp) and go inside for tea. Phone up ins to pay car ins quote: £500 - M's speeding fines and losing no-claims. Argh.

DE not back till near 7 - Andy brings them back. They have had a good time of course.

I tidy; M beds E then goes for bath. I read to D then his bedtime.

Soir: stoat:Moberg quite satisfactorily; mail GS and MM 'cos I'm quite pleased with it and get replies. Bit o'wiki; misc.

Past news: M is playing. I've had that Mussorgsky on the CD again earlier. BeA.

2005/02/12. Saturday. Sun but very windy.

Shed: clean up. Also outside but: bees! Spade doesn't help. Extensive rat tunnels: must come down more.

M gets ratty when DE interrupt her piano.

4:30 leave, after long wait for E on loo!

5:35: to JJ. J's 2nd eye much better - she can read again. Must find time to settle family tree and stuff with Joan.

6: to ma.

Dinner is a slightly odd stir-fry with home made sweet and sour sauce - honey and vinegar. Or something. Whatever, I think she should have consulted 2000 years of chinese cuisine. Pudding is a group creme caramel - superb.

Soir: mostly reading Jaran, which is proving rather good. Penrose doesn't get a look in.

2005/02/13. Sunday. Cold and rather windy.

Up just before 9 when Ma goes off to church - I have to move the car. DE are by the TV, but D has the zapper. Watch T+J or the progs? Dispute. Have b'fast. Sadly d comes in as I am eating my over-sugared shreddies - my cover is blown and my good name dust. Fortunately he accepts my only-at-ma's explanation and even adds "of course you don't have your museli".

Settle down with the paper. Griddler. Sometime before lunch (1 pm) realise I've gone wrong fatally.

Lunch is "roast without the roast" but pots and yorkshire pudding are excellent - of course - ma does this stuff well.

After, out. For a walk? Well... D is not keen. And its greyed over and windy. Tring museum? yes. Other people think its a good idea too so its quite crowded. No entry fee any more. Its *still* interesting. Sometime I must go round by myself. D (and E, less) has an alphabet sheet to find animal names on. I help. Show D the weasels but he is not impressed.

After: to pitstone playground - nice, but its chill, so after 10 mins I'm agitating to go back while D runs around quite happy!

Start the fire, have the tea, watch the Aristocrats again, but its good. Unlike the snatch of star trek movie we saw, which was awful. Leave 6: bye bye D, E, have fun, be good, look after each other.

7:15: back home. Tea. Read a bit more Jaran. Finally succumb and read mail/news then wiki: surprisingly, its sane. later on, Ben throws in the towel: this is sad: he is a poor lad (I suppose he is a lad) who desperately wants to contribute but has twisted himself in the process. And done his best to damage me too, I suppose, so excess sympathy is out. Mails re RC post on Moberg - everyone seems to like my stoat: on him, and TL links to me, and Het puts me at #2 in his round-up. Oddly, Lubos is buying shares in me - but I don't understand that. Try to sort out SC GP website mess.

M pianos a good bit, rather well if I'm any judge.

2005/02/14. Valentines day. Cold.

Since we're not forced to get up, we don', and lie in till 9. M scoots off to work fairly quickly after that but I am a bit slow and sit over b'fast. We have vast quantities of juice, so take a bottle in with me. Brr... its cold and windy.

Work. Misc. Trying to clear the decks to get back to the sea ice stuff. GJM finds a flaw in metlog which turns out to be GD.pm being missing.

Home 6:30, meeting Danny along the way, and discuss the cold. Sign at pub implies food will be on soon. M is back, to my surprise: I expected her to be late. Piano is the explanation.

7:15: phone Ma. DE are watching the aristocats *again* lucky them. E really really likes "everybody wants to be a cat". And so do I. Say goodnight to them both. Ma says that they have been good; a brief trip out in Cheddington today and the park but otherwise at home.

Bath. Start LotR again: M was reading it in bed.

M plays most of evening.

I install retrospect on the r100 and back it up (M has been having resume failures on hers, but I haven't). Wiki is calm and peaceful, bar some somewhat odd stuff from SEW that I let pass for now. Load up Toms photos and create a sockpuppet account (I've always wnated a sockpuppet) Tom L-C for doing this, and upload a few Ant photos.

Then hack at the Moberg RC post... its so much easier on stoat:.

2005/02/15. Cold again.

Lazy lie in, till 8:30 this time, but M plays. Read paper over b'fast. Work. Lunch with TLC/JCK; bad news after: budget cuts (blamed on high fuel prices, but rumours of else) will lose us 1-2 posts for Q4, on top of the one we've lost due to the odd accounting. Start of yadii (hadgem SSTs).

Pass pub: definitely sign saying they are doing food, 12-3 at lunchtime during the week. Must try.

Home. Take kitchen waste to compost heap and check around for ratsign: none: good.

Sit by fire and read LotR. Get up at 3:30 and tidy kitchen and hall; just as I'm finishing washing up Ma arrives, alone. Err... she explains: a joke (D is fond of this): I must look surprised. So go out to the car and when they come round the corner hand in hand I say oh! and go to hug them.

They have made a fruit-cake with marzipan; E decides she likes m'pan; D doesn't, or cake. Have tea. They have been good, she says, and polite. They have watch The Arisocats 2 times. But D is pleased to be back and goes to his lego. E shows Ma her "sponge bob squarepants" game, which eventually we get to play - it is on a silly square cd. ma leaves before 5, D plays and E watches, I have a quick snooze by the fire.

Cook some chinese spinach noodles... poor D doesn't want them, but then he doesn't want anything he can think of, so I point out to him that means he gets little influence. M arrives just as we're starting.

I put E's pygamas on (no screams tonight) and M beds her. M has bought "the phoenix and the carpet" (folows 5 children and it; I never knew) and I read ch 1 to D. Some penetrating comments about fathers in there.

From work side, download GDL and install (some probs; need to turn off various e.g. hdf). It works, but missing some stuff that might seem important (z-buffer; randomn; .run).

Soir: wiki (JG back but seems to have been squashed, happily), and as TLC load up some more of his pics: Stanley etc.

Stoat: on traffic (easy) and GDL (easy).

And now its nearly midnight...

2005/02/16. Wednesday. Cold, mostly grey.

Easy morning. M to work, I am at home with DE. Drag them (well it wasn't hard) to smoko (on the way, somehow end up talking about schools with D, and he says he wouldn't want to leave the village, as he really likes his school), then catch P+R to town to library (stopping in Oxfam along the way - buy DE the books they pick), where I read "asterix and the flying carpet" - a new one to me - and D does the same; E finds some books that we really must try to read this time. Thence the german cafe, which is crowded, but we squeeze in with the help of Mrs G who is pleased to see us (E) as ever. Though no chocolate this time :-( but she is busy. D and I have sandwiches; E has a cake that she eats little of and crisps. But she has some of my roll that comes with the soup. D has iced tea, a peculiarity of his.

After that its really time to go back. I have to carry E (who has walked so far) but D is still perky, though cold - I tell him to take his coat next time, as advised. Drop E at Vivians as arranged; Adam is out though at B's. As we pass Ben+Sophies, D notices the for sale sign, discuss that they will prob leave, D considers how he will feel: a bit sad that Honor will be going but not much as he hasn't seen her for some time.

Hmm... phone up A: yes OK, so drop D off there and I'm home at 3 with nothing I need to do. Peace. Make coffee and log in/read LotR. Good news: JG has got himself 3RR banned, 24h this time, so there is peace on the climate front. But somehow I waste an hour or more on something, and M (who comes back around 3:30) wastes a while reading wiki-history. Also reading LotR. The curious Tom Bombadil episode.

D comes back around 6, and M goes off to get E for 6:30. Both have eaten, so all is easy, esp as D heads straight for the pooter as soon as home - poor deprived lad.

Soir: M off to the pub. I bed D with most of ch 2 of tPatC, and try to cure him of crotch-grabbing and nose-pinching (his own, in both cases).

After that: misc. Trim email a bit. Realise I should book hotel for EGU so do: Wandl, just off Domplatz I think, a bit expensive cos singles are gone so I get a double-for-one at E 124/n. BAS might complain, in which case I'll pay the difference. Now I need to do a flight: tomorrow perhaps.

Check rc,news,mail,wiki. I'm not going to mention doing that again: I do it every night, and usually more often.

M back from the pub around 11:30.

2005/02/17. Thurs.

Another evening, another failure to get to bed on time. Sigh. Now M is in bed and I am writing this at 23:45...

Up late (9) but this is OK cos I am taking DE to N's at 10. Do so, then on to work, for a rather late start (in fact I read Nature in the library till 10:30). Misc stuff. Realise I will miss Andy Brown tomorrow.

Back to N's for 2:45, but all is well there so no need to collect for another hour. Raise prospect of sleepover on fri night and get N's s/bag.

Home: wiki: JG again (sigh). Repair as well as able. Get DE at 4. They are watching the Pink Panther DVD and it entrances; its the dive-bombing crows in the sweetcorn episode; funny. E looks so cute in her dress. Realise that sleepover tonight would make more sense, so N has to do her "echo" practice on the piano, with DE and P I go into the garden and they bounce on the trampoline while I inspect (jealously) the state of N's allotment. There is a very very fine rain falling.

Collect N, apologise to P and promise next time, and home we cycle. NE then disappear to see if they can play with J/E (they can't: dinner: its now 5) while I read to E.

M comes back, but with headache so lies on sofa. DNE want to do chocolate moulds so find one and melt choc. Meanhile, N takes to playing with E's dolls and then reading E stories from her books: maybe she wants a younger sister not brothers... N might not approve though. We have some white choc too (melt one sq in the microwave): experiment with brushing some onto the moulds first to make a multi-colour effect: this works well.

Dinner is mini-pizzas, broccoli and eggs. Really.

After, bathtimes: NE first, then E out for bed and D gets in. DN stay in for ages apparently having lots of fun. I pygama E and M beds her. For DN's story, N reads to D from "asterix and the goths". I vould read it, says D, but I'm not good at reading aloud. Bedtime at 8:30 (they have previously arranged their sleeping bags on the floor) but to no-ones surprise they take a long long time to settle: past 10.

Meanwhile I stoat: James Annan's posting; wiki (JG banned, so peace returns; check out AMA page). Etc. Fix up some of the EGP pages too. Was that the whole evening? M is mostly reading LotR and is probably ahead of me by now.

2005/02/18. Friday. Science Museum!

So today is the great day. There was much wiggling around last night from D's room and in the morning N is in D's bed with him... they both found the floor too hard, which is a new thing.

So... up we get, breakfast we have, and off we go (leaving E with M; P is coming over) at 9:30 to catch the 10:15. To station in plenty of time feeling pleased, even find a parking space. Get tickets (longish q)... argh! I've forgotten to buy the parking ticket. Never mind, I have lots of change... but not £10 of change. Argh #2. So re-join q having wasted 5 mins. Somewhat tense, but get there in time, run to car (fortunately close) and back and get on train with 1 min to spare. Whew! No seats, but all happy on floor. DN read; I read economist.

KC OK; they talk incessantly to each other so I can hear that they are close behind me... its quite busy, I suspect that a fair part of the flow is towards South Ken, or is that unreasonable? We count off the stops (9) and then we're there. Usual longer-than-you-expect walk through the subway, and when we're there a slight oddness, as we're directed to a different entrance and then can't seem to get into the main hall. No matter, what we all need first is a wee. But then we have to go up and round a long odd way... and then discover this is because they are renovating the main hall-of-power, which is a shame, both because there is good stuff in there and because having it blocked means that we have to trudge somewhat down long corridors. Hey ho.

For much of the rest, see: http://mustelid.blogspot.com/2005/02/science-museum.html where I rant a bit about the quality of the "science" in the play bits. But, it was a good day, perhaps a bit tiring.

I time things fairly carefully, dragging them out of the Garden at 5:15, to the Modern World, thence towards the exit, so we leave at 5:30. Minor panic when the refurb means we exit in an unknown street, but find the subway and get to KC in good time, even time to buy food+drink. Train is absurdly crowded - its a problem finding a bit of floor to sit on even - but all is OK and we are good tempered. DN find a friend - Anastasia she turns out to be - and after a period of ignoring each other they get friendly and share Mr Weasel and some games. Train stops a few times and press thins and I get a seat. Back 7:15; drop N 7:30; home a few mins later as E is preparing for bed. Kiss her.

Take D up to bed and have a bath, relaxing my stresses with I, Robot. Which is really not that good, sort of a series of thinly wrapped up puzzles. But I'm reading it (well M has LotR...). Back down, JG comes out of his latest 3RR as ever, so finally file RFA, which takes me past midnight. And writing this...

2005/02/19. Saturday. Sun but cold.

Gosh what a succession of lie-ins we are getting. This time M should have been dragged up but no, DE are happy downstairs (though E has come in to see us) and the sun is pouring in through the windows and I can't bear it so I get up to see the world, or at least have breakfast with the children.

After than, and a coffee, I head out into the garden, intending to tidy up the shed and environs, and succeed! Cut off the excess roof, and excess rafters, that have been annoying me for a year or more, which I really should have done a year or more ago. And pull off a load of the plastic sheeting, ditto. Then set to tidying outside: the piles of stuff I took out of the old shed "for a week or two" which turned into more than a year and the grass and weeds grew up. Also near the old bonfire site and sow with grass. D and Cory come halloing down the garden to do some "wordwork" inside, and I let them. Later little E comes down too and joins in happily, carrying puppy.

Lunch then turns out to be at about 2, after this.

Then to town, by P+R, because D wants to buy a new lego game. So we all go. Borders. E suddenly gets hungry, and Borders q is enormous as usual, so take her out to Oxfam for some choc: this does indeed keep her happy. Meanwhile D has chosen lego digital designer, but this is like Knights kingdom, which he didn't much like, but he seems attached to his choice. Eventually he settles on lego island, and we hope that will be fun. Unsurprisingly, E wants something too, so buy "scoubidous" which is a weaving/plaiting set that M remembers from her childhood playtimes; and some more haba beads. Then to w/s for the cafe, which too has a q but not so big. Plus its nicer. Its cold outside. Tea; then D goes downstairs to kids books; then ME; I sit reading "The command of the sea" by NAM Rodger, starting with the Protectorate.

Home. Install D's new game (on I:, to save space on C:) and he's away. I get to rest with a book for 1/2 hour.

M cooks supper: cabbage and tofu which is, sorry, not terribly nice (to me; though she likes it). Sadly D doesn't like it either and I find myself obliged to make him eat something I don't much care for myself. Hey ho.

M beds E while I tidy. M shows D how to scoubidou, then he has the Hobbit CD for story.

Thermo: 0 oC. Feels like snow.

M bath; I upload a couple of sci mus pics to wiki. RFA is 5/1 for acceptance, good.

2005/02/20. Sunday. Sun then snow then cold then rain.

In bed till 9:30... quiet sounds from downstairs, and E comes in occaisionally to hand us a teddy bear or so. About 9 she comes in excited: its snowing! So it is. But does D rush out? No, he is playing lego island. But E goes out, briefly: its cold, and the snow is thin. Up; drag D to b'fast and E. Wrap Adam and Milans presents; D writes a card for each.

Then pick up Billy and to Comberton VC for the party, just a little late. Fortunately Paul is by the front to direct latecomers. Leave E in with Helen and Viv; see D off to the football grounds with B. Its chill out. Snow gone. See how E is. She and Viv are playing inside the sports hall (where the food will be later) with Tara, Milans elder sister. H is happy if I leave her (and so is E) so I do, but first a check on D, who really really didn't want to play football. And... oh dear. Others play; he stands, back turned, off to one side, unmoving, the picture of misery. Go round to him and try to talk some sense into him. D, you must *try*. But I don't kn ow how to play. Just chase after the ball. Misery. Tears. Persuade him back on. Head down, misery, tears. The ball even bounces off his legs but he doesn't move. Go back to him. Keep your head up (Janets advice, at least in part: your physiology affects your psychology: head up helps). Back on, and this time he does try, a little, and may even be having fun. Just then it switches to penalty-taking, the two teams at each end. And this time he can be persuaded to try, somewhat, but still still still the great problem is there: he won't try hard, because he is afraid of failure. Hmm, well, OK, I know the feeling. But this is only kids football (to me; perhaps its more to him). Others have bouts of sadness too: N's hands are cold; Hannah snuffles (but plays) because the football-enthusiasts shouted something (probably "come on Hannah" to encourage her, but misinterpreted). Hey ho. The good bit is that all this is on astro-turf, so at least there is no mud!

After 1h, in we go, to the echoing sports hall, to run and play less organised games, and here D does join in and has fun. We even do throw-the-tennis-ball-through-the-basketball-hoop, an improvised game with no rules. Food. E happy through all this. And so it comes to an end (I've been reading LotR). H McR comes to get Charlie and we chat about Stuff and GP a little.

Back (light sleet): bringing NB with us. And a little later Cory knocks on the door. They are now playing some rather sweet make-believe game in shifting groups. M takes E off to w/rose, I start off the bread then drink coffee by the fire and misc. Now its 4pm.

Decide to go out and have a bonfire - there is a fair bit of junk wood from my tidying. DBNCE come too, and they end up with their own fire. The wind eddies and gusts - smoke is unpredicatable. They collect extra bits of wood and have fun. Send B back at 5:15; at 5:30 declare it time for N to go back so send C off too and drive N back. Nick is in a cloud of dust having done some sweeping and deconstructing around the tiny twisty staircase in the corner of the l'room.

DE to bed at sensible times since its school tomorrow. D gets floppy though - should have been earlier. M reads him Asterix translated from french; she took over from me when my word-rate was too slow. Translating, on the fly, is odd; because there are lots of sentences that transliterate comprehensibly, but have the words the wrong way round, and then its hard to think just how do I turn that into real English.

Soir: lots of wiki damage repair. Sigh.

Bed: late. Finish LotR in bed. Good.

2005/02/21. Monday. Snow that melts.

Up at the unheard of hour of 8:15, good heavens. D is outside playing in the snow, very sensibly taking advantage of it while its there. E is inside (yesterday it was the other way round), sitting up in bed, quietly playing a little game a bit like tiddlywinks with some counters on a book of D's. She is very intent on this and doesn't want to be disturbed.

Work: OK. Snow flurries at various points through the day.

Leave 1h early since bslcenc is falling over. Sigh. So I get to go back while its still light. D is at home, at the computer, but M is off collecting E. Its 10 to 6. ME come back, E v proud of her new name badge that she made.

Tomorrow is PC so long delayed time for: cut out plywood and cut battens to make signboard for dogs notice for school. Takes about 15 mins. Could have been done a month ago.

Sit down and start LotR II. Dinner by M: tortillas and re-fried beans. Good.

7:25: out to the PP meeting. Hmmm. Takes 2h to decide things... we are v poor at settling things and keeping them settled. Needs a better chair? But today I was temp chair. Its like herding chickens.

9:30. Back. Just freezing outside. Settle down to an evening of wiki (RFA evidence) but after a while it goes down. Peace? M has a box of pre-school files next to her but isn't working on them...

11: another snow flurry.

2005/02/22. Tuesday. Thin snow that stays a bit.

Another odd days weather... mostly cold, early snow, but quite a bit of sun and odd snow flurries. England: 4 seasons on one day.

E to M'a; d to sch. Then up the back and put up the dogs-under-control sign that I did yesterday up onto the footpath post at the top of the school field. To work.

Early troubles booting xterm, then learn from helpdesk that bslcenc has been rebooted: thanks, but why didn't you tell me? Sigh. Anyway, to work: and expecting Glen Richardson later on. Discuss yadii (tropial hadgem ssts) with Tom: mixed results: don't reproduce hadgem mslp errs; so waht is causing them? Start yadij, which is global (but without sea ice changes). Glen arrives: go to lunch with him and Tom and later JCK. Misc talk and science talk. Have a talk in my office re ancils (ocean) and offer to do one for him since he lacks IDL, poor chap. His talk (freshwater pulse to southern ocean; both MP and ASR there) is interesting and mostly repeats the GRL paper. His sst responses are about 2-3 oC max; Velligas and Wood got 8 ish, but with a pulse 3-4 times as large. So that scales. As he notices, the mechanism of shutdown is a bit different to the north: the freshwater caps the ocean, preventing warm deep water from rising; it does *not* (he says) appear to do much to suppress bottom water formation. Partly because hadcm3's BW is largely formed in the drake passage, where it shouldn't be. Talk afterwards, then leave him with Mike M, since its about time I went to collect E. And so I do. Snow is gone now, and in the sun its warm enough. E runs to my open arms in a darling way. M'a has a tooth abcess but has been emergency dentist'ed. D is slow out: go in and find him: he wants to show me two "mirror" books. One has pictures, on which you can lay a mirror to select the sad/happy halves, say, to make an entire picture. The other is slightly cleverer - Mrs S prefers it - and has pictures with "hidden" items revealed by the mirror: e.g. a man by a piano becomes an astronomer when the side of the piano becomes his telescope. Mrs S comments that D has been better since half term - speculates due to rested?

Home. D scoots off to J+E to get his lego island extreme disk back, and is keen to be back here because he is expecting Cory+Dak. Maybe. In fact he goes off to fetch them, and returns with C. E says hurray! They spen the a'noon quietly at the computer. E watches them then burbles around, and gets me to sew up her "PE" bag which is unravelling. Since wiki is down I get a nice peaceful pm... hmmm... is there a lesson there?

5:30: time for C to be off. "Come back some other time and I will be your friend!" calls E. What more could you ask?

Cook dinner: cartwheel pasta, E's favourite, D will tolerate it. And cut up cucumber, carrots and red pepper. OK, its not inspired.

7: off to PC meeting. Cold. Only 1:30, and fairly sensible.

Back just as D's bedtime story is finishing. Bed for him. Wiki still down so still peace, but unfinished business. Much of evening on long stoat: analysing an FOE climate change document. M has found a decent map in "unfinished tales" for the LotR.

2005/02/23. Wednesday. Cold, grim.

D sch; back with E. She wants to play Bananas in Pygamas (one of M's colleagues was giving it away...).

To work smoko a bit late. Thence to town: german cafe (a hard life...). We couldn't find my s'trunks so no pool; an I wasn't keen anyway. Not on a chill day like today. I think we leave E's "scarf" (actually M's crocheted recorder cover) there. Then to w/stones (E doesn't want to go to the library... not sure why not) for quite a while. And then home, taking us to about 2:30, since all of that was done rather slowly.

Rest until M back with D. Then its really time to start doing some tidying as ASCAnk are due this evening for pancakes! at 7. So we tidy: kitchen; hall; l'room; upstairs. OK. K is to sleep in our bedroom; Niamh in the spare room (though in the event she shares E's room and D sleeps in the spare room).

5: I go off to school to do the parent-teacher consultation with Mrs S. All is OK, mostly. Still probs with: 1. concentration/writing: he can write, but needs lots of prompting to get down to doing it 2. pushing self forward too much when he knows the answer (which is usually) and 3. maths: can be a bit slow; not very receptive to learning new strategies (too sure of himself).

Back: more tidy till 6. AS arrive about 7;15 and we start pancakes and drink. CAnk not much later, K is shuffled upstairs asleep and N comes in, quiet but not shy, and plays with DN - she is between them. NE to bed quite early, together; D up later. Talk: civil liberties, serious stuff, Clive surprises me by being fairly close to the "conspiracy theory" side - politicians want to control us; I'm on the "they are a bunch of idiots trying to cover their backs" side, and A+S are on the "good people trying to do a difficult job" side. And M and Andrea? Well.

9: all bar Clive and I off to hear M play at Mrs B's: must be a different piano, to get the not-at-home feel. Give Andrea the video, which has 3 mins left, so she can tape some. And she does. And its OK, though M is rather hard on herself, and says she has played it better.

And so onto the evening...

2005/02/24. Thursday. Snow then rain.

An interrupted night: E coughs so much she wakes herself up and comes in with us and needs cough medecine. And so on :-( With that, and too much beer, I'm up a bit late. E is having a breakfast tantrum and refusing to eat, then decides she *must* eat, so we're running late. Meanwhile D is quite ready... we leave before M.

Work. Mostly, getting the GRL paper ready for re-sub, which turns out to be fairly easy. M mails: a meeting is cancelled, she will work from home today (tomorrow Mr BigWig is coming with what is suspected is Bad News).

Yoga. After, its raining, so don't go to town but home instead, as my head is still a bit thick.

Do some wiki and do rather more sitting by the fire reading quietly and sleeping a bit. M is too! She also plays 4-5.

5:45: off to get D; then E (sign M'as passport then am ambushed with Marcus's shotgun license; hmmmpf); then home.

DE bath happily together with a tubtint: D chooses purple, E agrees. E is a Dr: she washes D's head with special potion. Or something.

D chooses The Hobbit CD for his bedtime story, poss because M is upstairs bedding E.

Soir: mostly upgrade the school prospectus to 2004/5 on the web.

M plays.

2005/02/25. Friday.

Work: resize figs for GRL. Argh. Leave a bit later than I intended and stop at pub, as I intended, to same food. A "doorstep" cheese sandwich is expensive (£4.99) but I give it a go. It is value: a real doorstep, well done, and comes with home-made chips and a salad. But... I wanted something smaller! Play with a "fiendish" sudoku but don't get far. Record it for later use...

So, all this means I'm a bit late getting to school for choosing time, as I had mostly-promised D I would. In fact I get there at break time, 2:50, which is essentially the end of CT. D is a bit sad about this but "the gang" - D,N,B - are pleased to see me. I'm a bit unsure about whether I should be there really but Mrs S doesn't seem to mind on a friday - I must find a moment to ask her better. Thought its break time (outside) D wants me in and this is also OK, so he shows me stuff, and BN get to stay in too - and so does Catherine F (when Hannah comes back in she complains bitterly about not being allowed to stay...). They have been playing (working) with shape-blocks, and we do these. After break we tidy them away, and other stuff. Last is "story time" but I can't stay for that (Mrs S selfconcious?) so I sit in the corridor and M'a finds me with E. She isn't too happy with E, who has clearly been naughty, because she looks guilty and won't speak.

3:30: D etc to multi-sports. E and I get P, who is expecting us and (says Mrs L) has been excited about it all day. Take them home. P wants to play lego racers, and E doesn't mind, so let them. Sit by fire. M back: site will close. She is OK with that: an end to uncertainty. And a quiet summer.

4:30: get DN from m/s. Andy offers swimming or film tomorrow but no, since Mfd/J coming. Take DN home, and get a relaxing pm from then on. N phones and offers to take D to a concert with N: D somewhat unkeen, but (fairly sure he will like it when he is there) I lean on him and he succumbs (partly because I get him jsut as he is feeling guilty for having wasted a load of cocoa and yoghurt). N collects PND at 7 and it goes quiet...

Mfd/J arrive about 8ish, and we have dinner: M's lentil soup and not much else cos our larder is quite bare. Left-over pasta a sos from childrens dinner: well I eat till full.

10:30: D back (we had been saying "its about time he was back" for an hour or more). He is v bouncy: is there any 2 extra people here he says. Anyway, he had fun, and even seems somewhat enthused by the idae of practising again.

2005/02/26. Saturday. Grey, some rain.

Up about 10 long after all else. Dak is here. Trouble with the awful sticky-keys: reboots. B'fast. M is off a w/rose but comes back about 11 and fairly soon after we head off for a free day in town. In fact we have nothing much we need to do expect mooch around so we do: M has had no b'fast so to Nero in Heffers which is nice. I read Joe Strummer biog by Needsy, M a JRRT biog. Day grey but then raining when we come out. To Outside to looks for maps of NZ (no) then across road to Borders to just browse vaguely. Look at "The algebraist" - I think it might like it, will read in paperback when it is. Then (about 2:30) we part: M home to play, me to cb1/arj where I haven't been for an age. Read a bit of Madouc. Thence arj, thence xxOcto, for a saw blade. Stop at Germ to inquire after E's "scarf" but no. Try next wed when the real people are there. Home. Discover that I wanted a 22" balde not a 24" one...

Now its about 5. DEDak and J are making blancmange, for some reason. Well, mine is not to wonder why, and they seem to be happy to. Settle to LotR etc. E is naughty and gets send (well, taken) up to room to be good but soon comes down OK.

M cooks supper: aub omlette and mushrooms in sauce and pots. D has left his lego boxes out and E has tipped them over so I'm rather miffed by the mess, esp as I spent ages last night sorting. But the food is good. Sadly my stomach is playing up a bit so I feel a bit over-ful. Neither DE keen. A bit more semi-tantrum from E over eating her food/pudding.

J beds E. D settles down to listening to Hobbit and (at my insistence) sorting lego.

Soir: Salaries committee is suddenly a hurry, emails; light snowfall; talk over the civil liberties stuff with Mfd/J for their perspective. Nothing too new, though as expected they don't believe the "conspiracy" stuff. M plays. Also talk re proxy records, and as it happens I have several relevant books :-)

2005/02/27. Sunday. Sun and snow.

Wake to see the sun shining off a thin layer of snow and rapidly melting it. Lazy am. Dak round for D. Chase them out around 11 - its lovely out, though chill - and follow them a bit later to hack at the blackthorn (terrible stuff to work on) a bit with lopers, awaiting a proper saw blade. Then with E raise the swingset - it had rather sunk into the ground because I didn't put the giant-tent-pegs in, so do two now (it wouldn't do to do all 4...).

In at 12:30: about time to get ready to go out to the pub. M is ducking out so she can tinkle. D cycles, E proudly but slowly tricycles and often objects when we help push her. D is soon far ahead. Its chill. To pub, our table, good. Food: very good quality, moderately expensive (£50 for 3 adults 2 kids inc a few drinks). On balance, they have increased both price and quality but they have inc'd the quality more. Service a touch slow though. But the waitress *did* keep bending over to show us her cleavage... :-)

Fin 3, and its a snowstorm, or at least its quite thick in the air. E doesn't like it getting in her eyes. But by the time we're home the sun is back, and D gets to make cycle tracks in the snow. Rick and Ewan have just turned up but have to go soon; still we talk a bit.

Mfd+J also want to go soon in case the snow gets worse, though it doesn't at this end at least.

Quiet pm. Baths for DE later. A bit more salaries stuff: meeting tuesday.

Soir: not too much. Send off NERC fellowship review that I was in danger of forgetting. M finishes LotR III and I have nearly finished II. Stoat: on coolerheads, but my heat isn't in it.

2005/02/28. Sun then grey. Light snow.

Slightly odd but interesting day. M'a is off, and M is trading me wed, so I get to pick up E at 12 from preschool. I rarely do this (usually its M'a) and its quite fun to see her amongst her folk and happy. After this, I want to talk to JM/MG if poss, but they are still in class, so hang around the lunch bit and D shows up. Talk to him (he is delighted to see me in school, he always is, partly because he does like me really and partly because that makes him special), and to Billy who is next to him. He has potato and cheese pie, and raw carrot, and some meringue-y stuff for pudding. He isn't keen on the pie and I can't blame him: I never liked it. But he eats the carrot. How are lunch times D? I ask. And he says, the seating system (you must sit in the same place always) is still annoying. And I agree. When he finishes he must ask to leave, and Tracy says yes once you've swept, so he gets the dustpan and brush out and does a quick sweep where he's been eating (I don't point out that if he ate more tidily this wouldn 't be needed...). Then he takes his tray and separates cutlery, then he's off. Meanwhile 2 older kids (one is Nelson) are serving behind the "counter" (a table) - presumably they take turns with this. Good. Find MG and JM looking at the heater for MG's classroom with the Rogan maintenance man: it is broken. Oops. Anyway, brief talk to MG re salaries and what I will do: OK by her.

Then... what next for us? E wants to go to BAS. But, I say, smoko isn't till 3:30. But she is keen and doesn't understand this... and I realise we could as well go to lunch. So we do. Sit at crowded table with KM and other glacios, and TLC. E eats a lot of my pasta and a little of her sandwich. Thence to orchard (I want a saw blade: get a 21" one; E wants to look at toys; I am mean and won't buy her any). After a long browse by her (while I read about battleships) we have a hot choc for her. I do an easy Sudoku (it really was trivial) and doodle on a fiendish one. V light snow starts. Thats about a week now of temperatures consistently dipping cold enough to let snow. Which is unusual. Leave, designed to get to sch at 3:30, and we do, but D slips out the back way to home club so I don't see him. E plays though. And we end up taking P home - why not? Keeps them both happy. Home, and they end up playing separately (P pooter; E cutting) but happily and are probably reassured by the knowledge that they *could* play if they wanted too.

I have a present waiting in the shed: from abebooks: the 1976 not-Mitacek textbook. Goody. Check it out - find the bit eventually - fair enough: its in context. Stoat: it soir. Read: LotR. Cook E's fave: cartwheel pasta, sos and brocolli (well she likes part I), and am unwise enough to retire to l'room rather than supervise: a lot of soya sauce gets used up and not much brocollii gets eaten. Return to supervise. N arrives just after 6 (having taken N to brownies: no male equiv in village) and MD at about the same time.

E has an eppy just before bedtime and starts screaming to M about something hurting in her eye. Is this just a bedtime put-on? But she is rather screamy. Is it just because she has rubbed her eyes too hard? Dunno, and she calms down.

D has Hobbit for story again, nearly at the end now, Thorin is dead.

Soir: 8: M out to p/sch ctte meeting, back about 10. Then she plays. I wiki very happily: Ed has unprotected GW which lifts my mood enormously, since (after the JG nonsense apparently settled) I was rather depressed by the apparent admin bias of GW getting protected. In fact the protect itself was quite trivial but it was just the stupidity and apparent ignorance of it, coupled with the beating-heads-against-wall feeling when 172 stonewalled unprotecting and no other admin was prepared to act. So hurrah for Ed! At least for the moment...

Stoat: on civil libs having read the link to Liberty that Clive sent.

M plays on; I go to bed past midnight and she rather later. Naughty.